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<blockquote data-quote="totoro" data-source="post: 93222" data-attributes="member: 3155"><p>Start over... It is not the same incident. You are pnishing for something at a different time. Even though it is whining, most kids can't relate that they were whining a couple hours ago. </p><p></p><p>We use a combo of this, explosive child and love and logic!!! LOL it seems to work as a combo. I decide what is "important" "basket" count them. unless it is violent. and then there is a consenquence, with explanations and reasoning with no yelling. I try to hold them accountable for their actions, at least to talk about how it makes each person feel and what we can do differently. </p><p></p><p>If it is just whining and I know K is elevated and having a hard day I may ignore it, or redirect her and give her a count, then give her a "time-out" a break to go talk or be by herself to decompress and chill. It doesn't always have to be sit in the chair and do nothing... for hitting Yes. But it is a judgment call for most of it. </p><p>And consitancy, once you develop a plan...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="totoro, post: 93222, member: 3155"] Start over... It is not the same incident. You are pnishing for something at a different time. Even though it is whining, most kids can't relate that they were whining a couple hours ago. We use a combo of this, explosive child and love and logic!!! LOL it seems to work as a combo. I decide what is "important" "basket" count them. unless it is violent. and then there is a consenquence, with explanations and reasoning with no yelling. I try to hold them accountable for their actions, at least to talk about how it makes each person feel and what we can do differently. If it is just whining and I know K is elevated and having a hard day I may ignore it, or redirect her and give her a count, then give her a "time-out" a break to go talk or be by herself to decompress and chill. It doesn't always have to be sit in the chair and do nothing... for hitting Yes. But it is a judgment call for most of it. And consitancy, once you develop a plan... [/QUOTE]
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