The more I think of this issue, the more upset I get. They have a dress code at all the schools here. Underware cannot be showing. T-shirts under polos. Pants cannot be hangging down. ETC. NOW....IF this kids was dressing according to dress code, his pants would NOT have come down. Can I say something or should I keep quiet. Again, difficult child has NO idea how we feel. We are letting him think about it, and how wrong it was to embarrass someone.