thank you, DJ! I pretty much need to decide today or tomorrow whether or not to get that attny on board that I talked with a couple of mos ago to 'help' me advocate for difficult child to get a parole plan that addresses his committing offenses a little better and for the PO to quit using emotional blackmail to try to force me into a treaatment plan that doesn't address the real issues at all, or to just toss it and tell PO to let me know when he's finished with my son and I'll try to pick up the pieces with him then. The violence, threat of violence, damaging property, and theft at home are big issues to me. I don't think anger management will help- 95% of these things didn't happen as a result of difficult child losing his temper.
I saw difficult child today- he says they have moved his release date up and now he'll be out around Dec. 6-8th. Oh boy- I told him to tell staff there that someone best be telling PO ASAP. School records are supposed to be sent to the receiving sd 30 days prior to release and they are planning on sending them to my jurisdiction because PO had originally told me difficult child would be going to the group home here. The whole thing is a mess. This PO made rash decisions- I knew he did.