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<blockquote data-quote="losttheplot" data-source="post: 168346"><p>As you all know I have a difficult child who is 7 who though the love of my life can test the patience of a saint.....MY easy child is almost 4 and a year ago the Paed said he saw signs of ODD in her and I laughed it off however lately my daughter is so like difficult child in certain areas....<img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/surprise.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":surprise:" title="surprise :surprise:" data-shortname=":surprise:" /> (and this was the time difficult child went from normal to out of control ands we got the diagnosis 6 mths later)</p><p></p><p>PFC has refused for the last 2 weeks to go to care because the daughter (who is 18) of her carer raised her voice as teens are apt to do and freaked her out ..... she wont even go the toilet in fear and when I said to her it was daycare day she lost it totally.... she was out with difficult child this week throwing stones at cars on the street (major road and they had climbed the gate and luckily i saw them and went mental(as mums are sure to do)....</p><p></p><p>she is wetting the bed after being dry for ages cause she is terrified in the dark......I don't mean the normal fear, I mean the mummy they will get me stuff.....I have a light on for her at night and she has a torch but she wont sleep in her room past 1am and she wont get up to go...</p><p></p><p>when i have asked her to do something she refuses and starts to scream and I literally have to drag her in kicking and screaming..... she is hitting and kicking both difficult child and me more and he is attacking back...they cant be alone for 2 minutes without someone getting hurt.....<img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/felttip/sad-very.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":sad-very:" title="sad-very :sad-very:" data-shortname=":sad-very:" /></p><p></p><p>when i brought it up to her carer (she works for barnados and has been around autistic kids for years and years) she said that a lot of her behaviors lately are aspie ......the problem to me is this kid will talk to anyone (on her terms not when you talk to her) and is highly clever...she is reading at 3.5..... she is Miss-have-a-chat... </p><p></p><p>I want to know how many of you have seen learnt behavior in your children cause I am not sure how to deal with this right now... she has had the telling off and she is highly sensitive so she breaks down and cant listen to what I am saying...she has had the smacks and she loses it that much it doesn't work.... I have tried time outs blah blah...... </p><p></p><p>is this all in my head......can she really copy difficult child that much even when he isnt there? I know this sounds stupid But i only have a delayed difficult child to go by and so not sure whats normal and whats not <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite5" alt=":confused:" title="Confused :confused:" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":confused:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="losttheplot, post: 168346"] As you all know I have a difficult child who is 7 who though the love of my life can test the patience of a saint.....MY easy child is almost 4 and a year ago the Paed said he saw signs of ODD in her and I laughed it off however lately my daughter is so like difficult child in certain areas....:surprised1: (and this was the time difficult child went from normal to out of control ands we got the diagnosis 6 mths later) PFC has refused for the last 2 weeks to go to care because the daughter (who is 18) of her carer raised her voice as teens are apt to do and freaked her out ..... she wont even go the toilet in fear and when I said to her it was daycare day she lost it totally.... she was out with difficult child this week throwing stones at cars on the street (major road and they had climbed the gate and luckily i saw them and went mental(as mums are sure to do).... she is wetting the bed after being dry for ages cause she is terrified in the dark......I don't mean the normal fear, I mean the mummy they will get me stuff.....I have a light on for her at night and she has a torch but she wont sleep in her room past 1am and she wont get up to go... when i have asked her to do something she refuses and starts to scream and I literally have to drag her in kicking and screaming..... she is hitting and kicking both difficult child and me more and he is attacking back...they cant be alone for 2 minutes without someone getting hurt.....:sad-very: when i brought it up to her carer (she works for barnados and has been around autistic kids for years and years) she said that a lot of her behaviors lately are aspie ......the problem to me is this kid will talk to anyone (on her terms not when you talk to her) and is highly clever...she is reading at 3.5..... she is Miss-have-a-chat... I want to know how many of you have seen learnt behavior in your children cause I am not sure how to deal with this right now... she has had the telling off and she is highly sensitive so she breaks down and cant listen to what I am saying...she has had the smacks and she loses it that much it doesn't work.... I have tried time outs blah blah...... is this all in my head......can she really copy difficult child that much even when he isnt there? I know this sounds stupid But i only have a delayed difficult child to go by and so not sure whats normal and whats not :confused1: [/QUOTE]
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