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questions/still struggling (used to be Missy44 - now Missy444)
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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 478492" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>Welcome back Missy. Sorry you are hurting again. </p><p></p><p>You know in your head that you didnt cause this but in the heart it really hurts, I know. We just have a much softer spot for the struggling child I think. Or I do. My middle child can mess up and I just think he is an idiot and pretty much let him feel his consequences. I get a bit more riddled with anxiety when it comes to my youngest. My oldest tends not to do much...lol. </p><p></p><p>You asked what can you do. Be your sons cheering section when he does something right. There will be plenty of people in his life that are willing to put him down but if you see him doing something good, tell him. You dont have to point out what he is doing wrong, Im betting he knows by now. You and he both know he isnt coming back to live with you so just dont talk about it. Tell him you know he is smart enough to figure things out.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 478492, member: 1514"] Welcome back Missy. Sorry you are hurting again. You know in your head that you didnt cause this but in the heart it really hurts, I know. We just have a much softer spot for the struggling child I think. Or I do. My middle child can mess up and I just think he is an idiot and pretty much let him feel his consequences. I get a bit more riddled with anxiety when it comes to my youngest. My oldest tends not to do much...lol. You asked what can you do. Be your sons cheering section when he does something right. There will be plenty of people in his life that are willing to put him down but if you see him doing something good, tell him. You dont have to point out what he is doing wrong, Im betting he knows by now. You and he both know he isnt coming back to live with you so just dont talk about it. Tell him you know he is smart enough to figure things out. [/QUOTE]
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