Sorry, I wasnt around lot! Just wanted to let you know that I am so proud of my oldest boy for being brave and supportive! I was unexpectedly diagnosed during the December holidays with breast cancer, so had all the surgery, dr appointments exct. So my treatment is going to start shortly after my 2 boys need to start their new school!!! I was and still am very anxious about the logistics and the effect the unplanned sudden changes in schedule and uncertainties will have on the boys! They need to start with new Occupational Therapist (OT), new ST and school, teacher and routine! I am so worried about not being there for them, interacting with the teacher, not beingable to be a "worrier" mom for them! By the grace of God the psychology student I contacted last year to maybe be a facilitator for little dude, said she would be willing to drive my boys to and from school and be like an au pair! We met with her last night, the boys loved her! She is very energetic, friendly and responsive! She works part time, VOLENTARILY, at an autism school! She loves kids with special needs! We were so impressed, we didnt even asked for references, but she was referred to us by the Autism assosiation of RSA, so I am sure she is "save"!? Both my boys is handling the situation so well! Little one has developed seperation anxiety and a bunch of fears, but thats expected! Thats why I want to try and build in some form of structure! Shame, they are really struggling with me sleeping and lying down so much now, they really misses their healthy mom! Just wanted to share with you and maybe gain some input or suggestions! Thanx for listening!