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Quick question to parents of difficult child's who abuses friend/s!!!?
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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 538883" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>Well, I used to be able to end it right then and there, they or we left. Now Q will get escalated so that plan no way works....!!! So, now I have to clue people in as it goes...(like today at the pool, another difficult child shows up, a little kid, things had been going well but then got too wound up. Q started shooting water at his little girl cousin who loves to fret and all the kids did really but Q wont back off. Then both difficult child's start flipping in the pool and when directed to stop I was being sworn at... SO....I stayed calm, we gathered up the toys that were being thrown, Nana told the kids time was up because we had to get ready for something else and Q fell for it. I told him we had to get ready for PT and that is true, his focus was shifted and that is how I try to get out of everything. When he is calm and alone, we then later talk about needing to take a break from that for X amount of time and we write down the things he has to show me. Problem is he seems so unable to hold it in so I dont do this for every infraction if he stops right away. </p><p>Of course in the off-play time we are doing the therapies, medications, etc....I wish your son could come join him for the weekly activity group he is doing, not sure if it will change things but at least he can make mistakes in a safer environment (I hope....I have no real trust, so they could say it is too much but we'll see)....The activities are so good though, they have an hour class first to practice goals then go out for three hours to do what they planned.</p><p></p><p>Well, gotta run to PT....will check in later!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 538883, member: 12886"] Well, I used to be able to end it right then and there, they or we left. Now Q will get escalated so that plan no way works....!!! So, now I have to clue people in as it goes...(like today at the pool, another difficult child shows up, a little kid, things had been going well but then got too wound up. Q started shooting water at his little girl cousin who loves to fret and all the kids did really but Q wont back off. Then both difficult child's start flipping in the pool and when directed to stop I was being sworn at... SO....I stayed calm, we gathered up the toys that were being thrown, Nana told the kids time was up because we had to get ready for something else and Q fell for it. I told him we had to get ready for PT and that is true, his focus was shifted and that is how I try to get out of everything. When he is calm and alone, we then later talk about needing to take a break from that for X amount of time and we write down the things he has to show me. Problem is he seems so unable to hold it in so I dont do this for every infraction if he stops right away. Of course in the off-play time we are doing the therapies, medications, etc....I wish your son could come join him for the weekly activity group he is doing, not sure if it will change things but at least he can make mistakes in a safer environment (I hope....I have no real trust, so they could say it is too much but we'll see)....The activities are so good though, they have an hour class first to practice goals then go out for three hours to do what they planned. Well, gotta run to PT....will check in later! [/QUOTE]
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