Just a brief update here. Things are going quite well. Almost totally moved into my other place and stay away from this place as much as possible unless husband is home. I'm still waiting for the court date for the charges against the "bad neighbors" (as my daughter calls them). My daughter has been doing really well the last little while with very little defiance towards me. I've had her on valarian to try to help her sleep but found out she's allergic to it so I'm back to the gravol when she just can't sleep. Her and I have been spending quite a bit of quality time together because I've been teaching her how to play with my dogs (both labs) and how to train them to listen to her. I think being able to play outside with the dogs, and interact with them may have helped her quite a bit. As far as things with me, I'm feeling a little burnt out from all the work involved with the slow moving but it's about to end soon (end of the month). husband and I have managed to rent out one of our houses, the one I'm moving from. The extra income from that will definitely help out with the double mortgages from both houses. I'm also getting ready to start a couple home businesses hopefully in the next month or two. I'm getting ready to help husband through battling his cancer again because his PET scan has shown a couple spots. We're expecting that he'll have to take a lengthy medical leave and that he probably won't be able to go back to his job afterward. It'll be hard, but at least he'll be able to run one of my businesses once I've got it going so it'll keep him busy. Unfortunately I don't have internet at my other house yet, so the only time I'm able to get online is when husband is home and we're at this house. Still working on that though - I'm thinking I am an internet addict It's so nice being able to come back here and catch up on how everyone else is doing and to be able to read up on information about other things I could be doing to help my daughter.