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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 340390" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: teal">I am with Lisa - either you trust one another or you don't. </span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: teal">It's unhealthy for you to isolate yourself and it's unhealthy for him to be pulling the strings like he does. It is also unhealthy for your children to see this going on between the two of you...unhealthy for you to be with them ALL the time. You and H have to set an appropriate example of a loving, trusting marriage. </span></span><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: teal">You need to put the past behind you and start fresh. </span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #008080">You need to have other adult relationships whether H is deployed or he's home. And so does he. Isolating yourselves with only each other is unhealthy as well. If he were home, would you not have any outside friends or contact? I would hope that's not the case. I meet friends for coffee and lunch - I'm a social person, don't have a lot of friends, but I do have a couple and I enjoy spending time with them. H makes snide comments at times, but I ignore them. I need my own space and outlet, just as you do. Best of luck. I hope you're able to find the balance you need in your life. </span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 340390, member: 2211"] [SIZE=3][COLOR=teal]I am with Lisa - either you trust one another or you don't. [/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=teal][/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=teal]It's unhealthy for you to isolate yourself and it's unhealthy for him to be pulling the strings like he does. It is also unhealthy for your children to see this going on between the two of you...unhealthy for you to be with them ALL the time. You and H have to set an appropriate example of a loving, trusting marriage. [/COLOR][/SIZE][SIZE=3][COLOR=teal]You need to put the past behind you and start fresh. [/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=#008080][/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=#008080]You need to have other adult relationships whether H is deployed or he's home. And so does he. Isolating yourselves with only each other is unhealthy as well. If he were home, would you not have any outside friends or contact? I would hope that's not the case. I meet friends for coffee and lunch - I'm a social person, don't have a lot of friends, but I do have a couple and I enjoy spending time with them. H makes snide comments at times, but I ignore them. I need my own space and outlet, just as you do. Best of luck. I hope you're able to find the balance you need in your life. [/COLOR][/SIZE] [/QUOTE]
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