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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 426034" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Linda, </p><p> </p><p>You know I think after years of wiping noses, and butts, and caring, sharing, loving, and calling yourself Mom? You would sort of expect at the least to get a modicum of respect even IF the child that lived under your roof didn't come from your womb. Even IF the child that lived in your house, shared your life - had mental problems, history of any kind, genetic quagmire of an unknown kind. Then? Theres kt, wm, and my sister. </p><p> </p><p>For you? I only know the history of what you have told me and others here for the time and love and pain that you have invested in kt and wm. The sacrafice, effort, hard work, tears, heartache, anger, small joys when they came that you accepted as victories for them, not so much for your own. But what gets me about your kids? Or about any adoptee that is still "Well I think I'd be better off if I knew my bio mom" is WHERE is your grattitude? Okay I get all the "Im messed up in the head, and I have a genetic gene pool problem, and I'm not sure if Mommy and Daddy loved me issue." **** we all have that adopted or not and I know it all too well, I invested 30 some years of my life in messing up my own life and trying to figure it all out while holding myself together because I didn't even KNOW it was an issue - BUT IN THE MEAN TIME? You have to have SOME freakin respect for the woman that changed your crappin drawers, stayed up with you when you were sick, nursed you back to health, fed you, clothed you, made sure you got an education, read to you, played games with you, taught you about nature, colors, alphabet, life - death, got you toys, tucked you in at night, made the alligators go away that were under your bed, did special things for your , made you Easter baskets, made Christmas CHRISTMAS, played in the snow with you, took you for walks, showed you off to her family, loved you, cared for you - WANTED you - I mean JUST where in the blue blazes does wm or KT or my sister get off NOT even being appreciative of ANYONE - for that? </p><p> </p><p>Whether it was you - or the woman down the road - there is a level of gratitude that just IS - you know? Okay I get it - He has abandonment issues. But what about the abandonment he's doing RIGHT NOW to you? Doesn't that count for anything in his mind or is he just so dumb that he figures it's a wm world and only the woman that said "Here world do what you want with him cause I can't care for him?" deserves a kiss on the kiester? </p><p> </p><p>I just dont get kids like that. No matter HOW messed up I was - No matter HOW much I couldn't figure things out? I knew who took care of me - I KNEW where home STARTED.....and it wasn't with the woman that said "I give her up for adoption" It was with the woman that said "I WANT to ADOPT that child." And for THAT - those are where MY loyalites are. not that I have ill will or harbor any feelings one way or the other personally - but I'm not a 16 year old boy or girl - I was at one time and even then? I wasn't as disrespectful as them. </p><p> </p><p>So if it helps you to know? It's not you it's THEM? It is. Because you are a HELL of a Mother and you can tell them BOTH from another messed up adoptee I said so - you can tell them that I said they're both pretty ungrateful and should be ashamed of how they treat you and the lameass excuses they're shelling out -of "Oh I'm 15, I'm 16" By the time your 16 ms kt? You should KNOW full good and well where your loyalties lay - and that should be with the woman that gave you a life worth having - not the woman that gave you life. Makes me so mad I could just spit. </p><p> </p><p>There's nothing wrong with you or any other Mother here Linda - It's the absolute entitlement and ungratefulness of the children who think the world owes them a complete kiss on the kiester who should be ashamed for how they treat the woman they call Mother in one breath and then how they talk to her in the next. Calling names in one sentence then having the gall to ask for a dollar because they are so grown up the next minute, forgetting who puts a roof over their head, and clothes on their back - REAL grown up. Mothers Day? I think one day out of 365 isn't asking too much to be honored when the other 364 are spent loading on the chapstick to kiss a bunch of ungrateful kiesters......</p><p> </p><p>Consider me puckerd out. I wouldn't do a single other thing for a kid like that - I'd tell em to get their MOTHER to do it for em - then ask them where she is the next time they need a FAVOR or a meal or some AIR CONDITIONING. </p><p> </p><p>I love you Linda - You're too good a woman to feel like this. And that goes for the rest of you feeling like this too - Even My Mom - my sister needs to take a flying leap off a monkeys butt. </p><p> </p><p>Hugs </p><p>Star</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 426034, member: 4964"] Linda, You know I think after years of wiping noses, and butts, and caring, sharing, loving, and calling yourself Mom? You would sort of expect at the least to get a modicum of respect even IF the child that lived under your roof didn't come from your womb. Even IF the child that lived in your house, shared your life - had mental problems, history of any kind, genetic quagmire of an unknown kind. Then? Theres kt, wm, and my sister. For you? I only know the history of what you have told me and others here for the time and love and pain that you have invested in kt and wm. The sacrafice, effort, hard work, tears, heartache, anger, small joys when they came that you accepted as victories for them, not so much for your own. But what gets me about your kids? Or about any adoptee that is still "Well I think I'd be better off if I knew my bio mom" is WHERE is your grattitude? Okay I get all the "Im messed up in the head, and I have a genetic gene pool problem, and I'm not sure if Mommy and Daddy loved me issue." **** we all have that adopted or not and I know it all too well, I invested 30 some years of my life in messing up my own life and trying to figure it all out while holding myself together because I didn't even KNOW it was an issue - BUT IN THE MEAN TIME? You have to have SOME freakin respect for the woman that changed your crappin drawers, stayed up with you when you were sick, nursed you back to health, fed you, clothed you, made sure you got an education, read to you, played games with you, taught you about nature, colors, alphabet, life - death, got you toys, tucked you in at night, made the alligators go away that were under your bed, did special things for your , made you Easter baskets, made Christmas CHRISTMAS, played in the snow with you, took you for walks, showed you off to her family, loved you, cared for you - WANTED you - I mean JUST where in the blue blazes does wm or KT or my sister get off NOT even being appreciative of ANYONE - for that? Whether it was you - or the woman down the road - there is a level of gratitude that just IS - you know? Okay I get it - He has abandonment issues. But what about the abandonment he's doing RIGHT NOW to you? Doesn't that count for anything in his mind or is he just so dumb that he figures it's a wm world and only the woman that said "Here world do what you want with him cause I can't care for him?" deserves a kiss on the kiester? I just dont get kids like that. No matter HOW messed up I was - No matter HOW much I couldn't figure things out? I knew who took care of me - I KNEW where home STARTED.....and it wasn't with the woman that said "I give her up for adoption" It was with the woman that said "I WANT to ADOPT that child." And for THAT - those are where MY loyalites are. not that I have ill will or harbor any feelings one way or the other personally - but I'm not a 16 year old boy or girl - I was at one time and even then? I wasn't as disrespectful as them. So if it helps you to know? It's not you it's THEM? It is. Because you are a HELL of a Mother and you can tell them BOTH from another messed up adoptee I said so - you can tell them that I said they're both pretty ungrateful and should be ashamed of how they treat you and the lameass excuses they're shelling out -of "Oh I'm 15, I'm 16" By the time your 16 ms kt? You should KNOW full good and well where your loyalties lay - and that should be with the woman that gave you a life worth having - not the woman that gave you life. Makes me so mad I could just spit. There's nothing wrong with you or any other Mother here Linda - It's the absolute entitlement and ungratefulness of the children who think the world owes them a complete kiss on the kiester who should be ashamed for how they treat the woman they call Mother in one breath and then how they talk to her in the next. Calling names in one sentence then having the gall to ask for a dollar because they are so grown up the next minute, forgetting who puts a roof over their head, and clothes on their back - REAL grown up. Mothers Day? I think one day out of 365 isn't asking too much to be honored when the other 364 are spent loading on the chapstick to kiss a bunch of ungrateful kiesters...... Consider me puckerd out. I wouldn't do a single other thing for a kid like that - I'd tell em to get their MOTHER to do it for em - then ask them where she is the next time they need a FAVOR or a meal or some AIR CONDITIONING. I love you Linda - You're too good a woman to feel like this. And that goes for the rest of you feeling like this too - Even My Mom - my sister needs to take a flying leap off a monkeys butt. Hugs Star [/QUOTE]
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