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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 490131" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>I think it is wonderful to be understanding and encouraging to him, remembering his full plate. However, that is a two way street. You are partners and he needs to either be the at home worker or go out worker. If he refuses to get healthy then he is putting too much on his own plate. Those things you dont need to feel sorry for. Just mho. I know that under it you love him and he is a good guy. but he is human like all of us and needs to get through this. Losing a job is one of the most difficult things, especially for a man who considers it his job to support the family. It can paralyze people emotionally, but he doesn't have a choice of not getting help or just finding a job and you are right to push him out to look for one. </p><p></p><p>I am sorry for your anxiety. I know the bill pay situation and the sadness about the Christmas, and had to accept help too. It feels awful. hugs to you all, love Dee</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 490131, member: 12886"] I think it is wonderful to be understanding and encouraging to him, remembering his full plate. However, that is a two way street. You are partners and he needs to either be the at home worker or go out worker. If he refuses to get healthy then he is putting too much on his own plate. Those things you dont need to feel sorry for. Just mho. I know that under it you love him and he is a good guy. but he is human like all of us and needs to get through this. Losing a job is one of the most difficult things, especially for a man who considers it his job to support the family. It can paralyze people emotionally, but he doesn't have a choice of not getting help or just finding a job and you are right to push him out to look for one. I am sorry for your anxiety. I know the bill pay situation and the sadness about the Christmas, and had to accept help too. It feels awful. hugs to you all, love Dee [/QUOTE]
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