I guess I shouldnt be but I am. I should have expected it. I called the cemetery today to get the plot number for my Dad's grave and the information about flowers and such for the upcoming Father's day. I want to send something to be placed on the grave. They gave me the information and said they would send me the rules and such. Great! I decided to call my stepmom to tell her that I would be sending something so we didnt overlap the flowers ya know? Seemed like a good idea to me. Well, I also asked her if she wanted me to continue sending her pictures of the kids since Jamie just graduated the academy and Keyana is doing this recital and pageant and its going to be her 5th birthday and we dont know when we are going to get anymore pics soon etc...and the woman told me point blank...NO....dont bother. Huh? She has known me since I was 9 years old first as my mother's best friend and then as my fathers wife and she doesnt want to keep at least somewhat in touch with what in essence are her GREAT GRANDCHILDREN???????? These kids were born when they were married for cripes sake! You can bet your sweet behind that if she had died and my dad was alive, he would not behave this way with her kids. I simply am stunned that she said it to my face.