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<blockquote data-quote="PatriotsGirl" data-source="post: 575814" data-attributes="member: 15796"><p>I couldn't agree more! Here is an email I typed up to her this morning. Can you please read it and let me know if I am okay on this? I have too many emotions involved. I feel it is better to send an email so she will read it. If I try talking to her on the phone about it, it may turn into an argument and get nowhere..</p><p></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #000000"><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'">Hi Honey </span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #000000"><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'">There is a place in xxx that I really hope you willbe willing to go to. You can make an appointment to go talk to someone that is notinvolved in the situation. I think you really, really need to think about thisand what your options are. </span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #000000"><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'">You need to know that dad and I are not going to raise morechildren. </span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #000000"><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'">We will not feed, clothe and put diapers on the baby. Wewill not be financially responsible. </span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #000000"><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'">What we can offer is love and advice. </span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #000000"><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'">I also want you to really think realistically about all ofthis. I am sure the idea of having a family is wonderful. It is wonderful! AndI will be very excited to have grandchildren!! But the truth is that you are bothin fact homeless, neither of you is looking for a job and so you have no way tofeed, clothe and put diapers on a baby. It certainly would not be fair to raiseyour child in a dirty motel room. The life that you are both living right nowis no way right for a baby and I am sorry, I dont see either of you doinganything to change it. All you two do is fight. I promise you if this is theenvironment that you end up having the child in, the child will most likely betaken away from you and put into foster care. I dont think you want that,either. It would be truly heartbreaking for everyone, because like I said, weare done raising children. </span><span style="font-family: 'Wingdings'"><span style="font-family: 'Wingdings'">L</span></span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #000000"><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'">Im not saying this to stress you out or make you feelbad. I only want you to really think about what you are doing and be confidentin your decision. Like I said, I will support you in whatever decision you make it is YOUR decision to make. I also know you do not have a lot of time tomake your decision so I would like you to be as informed and educated on it aspossible. These people will tell you ALL of your options, let you know abouthelp and programs available and be there to talk to. Please call and make an appointment.It is right there in xxx. </span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #000000"><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'">I love you so very much!</span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><a href="http://www.choicespregnancy.org/about-us" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #0000ff">http://www.choicespregnancy.org/about-us</span></span></span></a></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Arial'"><span style="color: #000000">Love,</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="color: #000000"><span style="font-family: 'Arial'">Mommy</span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="PatriotsGirl, post: 575814, member: 15796"] I couldn't agree more! Here is an email I typed up to her this morning. Can you please read it and let me know if I am okay on this? I have too many emotions involved. I feel it is better to send an email so she will read it. If I try talking to her on the phone about it, it may turn into an argument and get nowhere.. [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000][FONT=Calibri]Hi Honey [/FONT][/COLOR][/SIZE] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][FONT=Calibri][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000] [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000][FONT=Calibri]There is a place in xxx that I really hope you willbe willing to go to. You can make an appointment to go talk to someone that is notinvolved in the situation. I think you really, really need to think about thisand what your options are. [/FONT][/COLOR][/SIZE] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][FONT=Calibri][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000] [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000][FONT=Calibri]You need to know that dad and I are not going to raise morechildren. [/FONT][/COLOR][/SIZE] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][FONT=Calibri][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000] [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000][FONT=Calibri]We will not feed, clothe and put diapers on the baby. Wewill not be financially responsible. [/FONT][/COLOR][/SIZE] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][FONT=Calibri][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000] [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000][FONT=Calibri]What we can offer is love and advice. [/FONT][/COLOR][/SIZE] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][FONT=Calibri][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000] [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000][FONT=Calibri]I also want you to really think realistically about all ofthis. I am sure the idea of having a family is wonderful. It is wonderful! AndI will be very excited to have grandchildren!! But the truth is that you are bothin fact homeless, neither of you is looking for a job and so you have no way tofeed, clothe and put diapers on a baby. It certainly would not be fair to raiseyour child in a dirty motel room. The life that you are both living right nowis no way right for a baby and I am sorry, I dont see either of you doinganything to change it. All you two do is fight. I promise you if this is theenvironment that you end up having the child in, the child will most likely betaken away from you and put into foster care. I dont think you want that,either. It would be truly heartbreaking for everyone, because like I said, weare done raising children. [/FONT][FONT=Wingdings][FONT=Wingdings]L[/FONT][/FONT][FONT=Calibri][/FONT][/COLOR][/SIZE] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][FONT=Calibri][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000] [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000][FONT=Calibri]Im not saying this to stress you out or make you feelbad. I only want you to really think about what you are doing and be confidentin your decision. Like I said, I will support you in whatever decision you make it is YOUR decision to make. I also know you do not have a lot of time tomake your decision so I would like you to be as informed and educated on it aspossible. These people will tell you ALL of your options, let you know abouthelp and programs available and be there to talk to. Please call and make an appointment.It is right there in xxx. [/FONT][/COLOR][/SIZE] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][FONT=Calibri][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000] [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000][FONT=Calibri]I love you so very much![/FONT][/COLOR][/SIZE] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][FONT=Calibri][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000] [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][URL="http://www.choicespregnancy.org/about-us"][FONT=Calibri][SIZE=3][COLOR=#0000ff]http://www.choicespregnancy.org/about-us[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][/URL] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][FONT=Calibri][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000] [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][FONT="Arial"][COLOR=#000000]Love,[/COLOR][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][FONT="Arial"][COLOR=#000000] [/COLOR][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][COLOR=#000000][FONT="Arial"]Mommy[/FONT][FONT="Times New Roman"][/FONT][/COLOR] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [/QUOTE]
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