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<blockquote data-quote="rejectedmom" data-source="post: 575842" data-attributes="member: 2315"><p>I think you are doinng a great job. You are being thoughtful and honest and very clear in what you will and will not do. Your difficult child may test you but as long as you stand firm in your decisions she will learn that you mean what you say. My heart breaks for you. This is all so very worisome.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Nancy I so understand. Our life and experiences with our difficult child's are so very similar. I agree that it isn't thier fault that they were born so disadvantaged. I also agree that 20+ years of heartbreak leaves us depleated and in need of rest. It was so hard to turn my adult difficult child over to the system but I just could not do it anymore. It is sad that he keeps making the same mistakes over and over again and suffering as a result but I did everything I could for him. I love him with my whole heart but I do not want to parent another difficult child. Unfortunately is is almost ((86%) a given that any of his offspring will have similar problems due to the cromosome abnormalities he will pass down. He is just like his BioF. even though he was raise so much better with so many interventions. But it did take a lot for me to say "uncle". It took even more for me to loose the guilt of saying it. So many hugs for PG, you and all of us here who are dealing with such heartbreaking situations. -RM</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="rejectedmom, post: 575842, member: 2315"] I think you are doinng a great job. You are being thoughtful and honest and very clear in what you will and will not do. Your difficult child may test you but as long as you stand firm in your decisions she will learn that you mean what you say. My heart breaks for you. This is all so very worisome. Nancy I so understand. Our life and experiences with our difficult child's are so very similar. I agree that it isn't thier fault that they were born so disadvantaged. I also agree that 20+ years of heartbreak leaves us depleated and in need of rest. It was so hard to turn my adult difficult child over to the system but I just could not do it anymore. It is sad that he keeps making the same mistakes over and over again and suffering as a result but I did everything I could for him. I love him with my whole heart but I do not want to parent another difficult child. Unfortunately is is almost ((86%) a given that any of his offspring will have similar problems due to the cromosome abnormalities he will pass down. He is just like his BioF. even though he was raise so much better with so many interventions. But it did take a lot for me to say "uncle". It took even more for me to loose the guilt of saying it. So many hugs for PG, you and all of us here who are dealing with such heartbreaking situations. -RM [/QUOTE]
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