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<blockquote data-quote="PatriotsGirl" data-source="post: 575907" data-attributes="member: 15796"><p>I have never ever said to <em>her</em> that I would do <em>anything</em>....no fears there. I am much smarter than that. The email I copied here is exactly what I sent and of course, there has been no response. </p><p></p><p>Honestly, I am sure the situation would be a <em>lot </em>different if it was not a baby with someone that she is in love with and has been with for over a year. She always said she would never, ever have children. She has always said that if it ever happened, she would terminate it. But because she is in a relationship with someone that does love her and is thrilled with the pregnancy, I really do not think she will terminate it. And I am sorry, regardless of anyone's feelings on the matter, I would never tell her to do that. I am pro choice, but I know there are emotional side effects as well and I do struggle with the idea to be honest. But regardless, not my choice to make. I am adamant about that. I can only give her my opinion and guide her to talk to someone.</p><p></p><p>Regardless of the situation, it is her decision and really has nothing to do with me. I have made it clear that we will not raise or support a child and now the rest is on her. All I can do now is pray that she makes a decision that she can live with...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="PatriotsGirl, post: 575907, member: 15796"] I have never ever said to [I]her[/I] that I would do [I]anything[/I]....no fears there. I am much smarter than that. The email I copied here is exactly what I sent and of course, there has been no response. Honestly, I am sure the situation would be a [I]lot [/I]different if it was not a baby with someone that she is in love with and has been with for over a year. She always said she would never, ever have children. She has always said that if it ever happened, she would terminate it. But because she is in a relationship with someone that does love her and is thrilled with the pregnancy, I really do not think she will terminate it. And I am sorry, regardless of anyone's feelings on the matter, I would never tell her to do that. I am pro choice, but I know there are emotional side effects as well and I do struggle with the idea to be honest. But regardless, not my choice to make. I am adamant about that. I can only give her my opinion and guide her to talk to someone. Regardless of the situation, it is her decision and really has nothing to do with me. I have made it clear that we will not raise or support a child and now the rest is on her. All I can do now is pray that she makes a decision that she can live with... [/QUOTE]
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