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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 516139"><p>It is hard to know what to do sometimes. I took Primas words as actually good advice.... although worded somewhat harshly. That is where I am at this time at rehab... it is time for my son to figure things out. Somehow I think knowing mom is there loving him no matter what, always there as a backup, allows him to not man up as Prima said. </p><p></p><p>So this time I have let him know of a way to call home. He can call me and of course I will accept the charges. But I really don't want to call and tell him I love him etc. if he is not in a place where he wants to talk to me or to take in my love. It is really up to him at this point to take the steps to repair our relationship. I have shown over and over and over and voer that I love him and am there for him. AG you have done this too!! He knows you love him.... that is not really the question.</p><p></p><p>So we sit and wait until they are ready to take the steps to build a relationship with us.... and in the meantime we go on with our lives.</p><p></p><p>TL</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 516139"] It is hard to know what to do sometimes. I took Primas words as actually good advice.... although worded somewhat harshly. That is where I am at this time at rehab... it is time for my son to figure things out. Somehow I think knowing mom is there loving him no matter what, always there as a backup, allows him to not man up as Prima said. So this time I have let him know of a way to call home. He can call me and of course I will accept the charges. But I really don't want to call and tell him I love him etc. if he is not in a place where he wants to talk to me or to take in my love. It is really up to him at this point to take the steps to repair our relationship. I have shown over and over and over and voer that I love him and am there for him. AG you have done this too!! He knows you love him.... that is not really the question. So we sit and wait until they are ready to take the steps to build a relationship with us.... and in the meantime we go on with our lives. TL [/QUOTE]
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