My sister got her daughter, C, into rehab again today. I think this is her 4th time. This is the email she sent me: Spent the day getting C. ready and into rehab. I think everything will go well and she really wants to get better. It's hard. My first thought was, why did she spend the day doing that? Isn't that part of the co-dependency issue? This is a 21-yr-old woman who is living in her own apt. (Okay, she got kicked out for not paying rent and was living with-a friend ...) But isn't she supposed to pack her own suitcase or something? Maybe my sister meant that it took all day to talk to C., and soothe her, and do that paperwork once they got there. Any insights on this? Thanks in advance.