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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 670947" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>I want to comment upon the 2 fashionista videos, first. How I love them!! I watched them each several times and can imagine watching them infinitely more times. Each time I see more. Of myself. And what I can be.</p><p></p><p>And, Cedar, how much I enjoyed the Carmen biography. I have followed her too. I did not know about her relationship with her daughter. Bittersweet, it is. There must be great love there, too.</p><p></p><p>I woke up late. So much to digest here. I have not yet done one thing in real life.</p><p></p><p>I want to note another dream I had. I am in some responsible role which is unclear. There is a young girl from a non-specific patriarchal society for whom I am responsible. Perhaps Iraqi or one of the satellite Southern Russian nations that are fighting for independence. </p><p></p><p>I cannot remember clearly. I should have written it right away. There is a way that the child is seeking or is needing protection and emancipation. </p><p></p><p>My ex-psychiatrist is in a role where he is needed to sign off on papers that will assist the child.</p><p></p><p>There is a sheaf of papers that need completing. There is some struggle with the parents and community which is quite close knit. The struggle is between keeping the child close-in, and protecting her. At some point the father cooperates minimally.</p><p></p><p>The child brings a bag of marijuana to the class *which is empty except for she and I. I panic and try to secret it in a drawer, with the paperwork which is now partially completed and signed. </p><p></p><p>Simultaneous to this dream, the psychiatrist has a party for the staff. His house is on the water and is very elegant, in a town called San Anselmo. He as a boat. There is the idea that he is inviting the staff (whoever they are) to see how the better half lives. To allow them to experience the privilege of his life, for that short period.</p><p></p><p>I am aware in the dream about the girl that there is the question of imposing dominant group ideas and values onto another culture. That her family's and community's values are to be respected in how they define a girl's role. This is in struggle with the desire of the girl to define herself and grow. And her need to be respected and protected. </p><p></p><p>The battle inside of me, is great. I remember that. </p><p></p><p>There is the sense of danger and anger--from her community who at some point become enraged and threatening. The girl is unafraid. I am.</p><p></p><p>I need to bring M his lunch. I will be back.</p><p></p><p>COPA</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 670947, member: 18958"] I want to comment upon the 2 fashionista videos, first. How I love them!! I watched them each several times and can imagine watching them infinitely more times. Each time I see more. Of myself. And what I can be. And, Cedar, how much I enjoyed the Carmen biography. I have followed her too. I did not know about her relationship with her daughter. Bittersweet, it is. There must be great love there, too. I woke up late. So much to digest here. I have not yet done one thing in real life. I want to note another dream I had. I am in some responsible role which is unclear. There is a young girl from a non-specific patriarchal society for whom I am responsible. Perhaps Iraqi or one of the satellite Southern Russian nations that are fighting for independence. I cannot remember clearly. I should have written it right away. There is a way that the child is seeking or is needing protection and emancipation. My ex-psychiatrist is in a role where he is needed to sign off on papers that will assist the child. There is a sheaf of papers that need completing. There is some struggle with the parents and community which is quite close knit. The struggle is between keeping the child close-in, and protecting her. At some point the father cooperates minimally. The child brings a bag of marijuana to the class *which is empty except for she and I. I panic and try to secret it in a drawer, with the paperwork which is now partially completed and signed. Simultaneous to this dream, the psychiatrist has a party for the staff. His house is on the water and is very elegant, in a town called San Anselmo. He as a boat. There is the idea that he is inviting the staff (whoever they are) to see how the better half lives. To allow them to experience the privilege of his life, for that short period. I am aware in the dream about the girl that there is the question of imposing dominant group ideas and values onto another culture. That her family's and community's values are to be respected in how they define a girl's role. This is in struggle with the desire of the girl to define herself and grow. And her need to be respected and protected. The battle inside of me, is great. I remember that. There is the sense of danger and anger--from her community who at some point become enraged and threatening. The girl is unafraid. I am. I need to bring M his lunch. I will be back. COPA [/QUOTE]
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