Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
Parent Support Forums
General Parenting
Request doesn't show up in system!!!!
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 233644" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>You know, PO's statement "you should have come to me; if I'd thought he needed fapt, I would have ordered it." kills me. I finally figured out all the reasons why. 1) she did already know the situation about me work, his instability, lack of finances, and she never mentioned fapt or additional help once. 2) she said last year she was only doing what judge had written in the order and I had to request a hearing to get judge to remove mst order because PO and gal and mst guy refused to report to anyone that it was not appropriate or effective treatment for him, when I had proof in hand from MDE psdoc. 3) PO didn't say "I would order fapt if profs recommend it" or "we could talk about the option of fapt and if it seems to be in difficult child's best interest, I'll order it" or "why do you think you need it" or "do you think this could help difficult child get on the right track and stay on it"- NOPE- she said " if <strong>she</strong> had thought it was necessary...." </p><p></p><p>Now, if I chose to ignore psychiatrist and therapist's warnings and recommendations, what would she say? </p><p></p><p>Not only that, I called and spoke with her today about difficult child's admission last night. No, I didn't tell her that he put a knife in my face or at my throat. But, I did say he was admitted due to aggression toward me this time. She said "Oh, that's right, it has to be either immenent threat to self or others..well". Thats's what she said- then she asked what psychiatric hospital I had him admitted to and told me to call her after the family meeting and keep her informed.</p><p></p><p>Well, HELLO. If you're going to play God and be the ULTIMATE decision maker, than aren't you supposed to be a little more proactive? Not that I really want that from her, but she obviously is aware now that not only is he a risk to himself, but he was admitted to psychiatric hospital last night for being a risk to me. What is her plan? Nothing. But, who has the only authority? She does. Ohhh...</p><p></p><p>This isn't over. If I wasn't so worried about my son's future, I'd be calling her and telling her that she needs to decide where he's he's going to be placed and who's going to pick him up at psychiatric hospital and she needs to arrange to have all that taken care of and his after care in place, because I'm not doing it. Then, we'll see if she has the authority to go thru with all that without getting a hearing beofre the judge.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 233644, member: 3699"] You know, PO's statement "you should have come to me; if I'd thought he needed fapt, I would have ordered it." kills me. I finally figured out all the reasons why. 1) she did already know the situation about me work, his instability, lack of finances, and she never mentioned fapt or additional help once. 2) she said last year she was only doing what judge had written in the order and I had to request a hearing to get judge to remove mst order because PO and gal and mst guy refused to report to anyone that it was not appropriate or effective treatment for him, when I had proof in hand from MDE psdoc. 3) PO didn't say "I would order fapt if profs recommend it" or "we could talk about the option of fapt and if it seems to be in difficult child's best interest, I'll order it" or "why do you think you need it" or "do you think this could help difficult child get on the right track and stay on it"- NOPE- she said " if [B]she[/B] had thought it was necessary...." Now, if I chose to ignore psychiatrist and therapist's warnings and recommendations, what would she say? Not only that, I called and spoke with her today about difficult child's admission last night. No, I didn't tell her that he put a knife in my face or at my throat. But, I did say he was admitted due to aggression toward me this time. She said "Oh, that's right, it has to be either immenent threat to self or others..well". Thats's what she said- then she asked what psychiatric hospital I had him admitted to and told me to call her after the family meeting and keep her informed. Well, HELLO. If you're going to play God and be the ULTIMATE decision maker, than aren't you supposed to be a little more proactive? Not that I really want that from her, but she obviously is aware now that not only is he a risk to himself, but he was admitted to psychiatric hospital last night for being a risk to me. What is her plan? Nothing. But, who has the only authority? She does. Ohhh... This isn't over. If I wasn't so worried about my son's future, I'd be calling her and telling her that she needs to decide where he's he's going to be placed and who's going to pick him up at psychiatric hospital and she needs to arrange to have all that taken care of and his after care in place, because I'm not doing it. Then, we'll see if she has the authority to go thru with all that without getting a hearing beofre the judge. [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
Parent Support Forums
General Parenting
Request doesn't show up in system!!!!
Top