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<blockquote data-quote="Ropefree" data-source="post: 233658" data-attributes="member: 6271"><p>Klmno: Just keep your wits about you and bare in mind that although this critical matter is dominating your life it is just ONE MORE THING to these people who are earning their living off the tribulations of others. What I find helps me is to ask THEM questions to draw out their position on what they think about what you are basing your plans steps and goals with this.</p><p>That way they are responding to your thinking and engaging in the solutions themselves. Even an inexperianced new parent is going to follow your logic. It is a habit of people to react,especially when they are seeing the choice making as "their job". As a parents weither the probation lady likes your house rules or not it is not her concern if you are limiting the activity of a minor dependant of yours. In your care under you your child is either under your control or, if he is not, he is breaking the law. </p><p>The main thing is you are making progress and getting your son in the hospital for observation is very good.</p><p>You need to get some down time for you. This running you ragged factor is exhausting and you can not do all and be all without the rest, some pampering...some you getting what you need met for you. yes the issues that are so vital for your son are critical and yes you are doing a fantastic job working with what you have to meet that. All by yourself. </p><p>I hope that your son is getting it. It is about time. He can make this matter alot easier for himself and you.</p><p>You are fantastic,klmno.Wow. Keep it up.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Ropefree, post: 233658, member: 6271"] Klmno: Just keep your wits about you and bare in mind that although this critical matter is dominating your life it is just ONE MORE THING to these people who are earning their living off the tribulations of others. What I find helps me is to ask THEM questions to draw out their position on what they think about what you are basing your plans steps and goals with this. That way they are responding to your thinking and engaging in the solutions themselves. Even an inexperianced new parent is going to follow your logic. It is a habit of people to react,especially when they are seeing the choice making as "their job". As a parents weither the probation lady likes your house rules or not it is not her concern if you are limiting the activity of a minor dependant of yours. In your care under you your child is either under your control or, if he is not, he is breaking the law. The main thing is you are making progress and getting your son in the hospital for observation is very good. You need to get some down time for you. This running you ragged factor is exhausting and you can not do all and be all without the rest, some pampering...some you getting what you need met for you. yes the issues that are so vital for your son are critical and yes you are doing a fantastic job working with what you have to meet that. All by yourself. I hope that your son is getting it. It is about time. He can make this matter alot easier for himself and you. You are fantastic,klmno.Wow. Keep it up. [/QUOTE]
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