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<blockquote data-quote="timer lady" data-source="post: 404055" data-attributes="member: 393"><p><span style="color: navy"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'">DF, I'm not surprised at the end result of the mtg but was hoping for better. At this point, states are meting out in home services rather than Residential Treatment Center (RTC) in hopes this will "cure" the situation. All the mental health pro's can chime in all they want ~ the case workers have to report to a supervisor who in turn must keep his/her budget in line to the state legislation. See where I'm going here?</span></span></span></p><p><span style="color: navy"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"></span></span></span></p><p><span style="color: navy"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'">Take what ever is offered. Document, document, document. Cooperate with the in home person within reasonable parameters & boundaries. Let the in home person know the boundaries & privacy that you insist be acknowledged & followed by difficult child & in home staff. Present your family's home rules, chores, expectations for respect, school, etc.</span></span></span></p><p><span style="color: navy"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"></span></span></span></p><p><span style="color: navy"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'">It's the only way to keep things sane while seeking help for your difficult child. You know your difficult child will step over the line with this person in the house & will try to snowball & blame her behaviors on circumstances, people, etc. </span></span></span></p><p><span style="color: navy"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"></span></span></span></p><p><span style="color: navy"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'">Given your difficult children age & complex issues insist that a seasoned worker be assigned to your difficult child. Not someone just out of school or who can be overwhelmed by a knowledgeable but loving parent. Many times the worker comes in looking for the worst out of the parents.</span></span></span></p><p><span style="color: navy"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"></span></span></span></p><p><span style="color: navy"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'">Keeping you & yours in my thoughts.</span></span></span></p><p><span style="color: navy"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"></span></span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="timer lady, post: 404055, member: 393"] [COLOR=navy][SIZE=3][FONT=Comic Sans MS]DF, I'm not surprised at the end result of the mtg but was hoping for better. At this point, states are meting out in home services rather than Residential Treatment Center (RTC) in hopes this will "cure" the situation. All the mental health pro's can chime in all they want ~ the case workers have to report to a supervisor who in turn must keep his/her budget in line to the state legislation. See where I'm going here? Take what ever is offered. Document, document, document. Cooperate with the in home person within reasonable parameters & boundaries. Let the in home person know the boundaries & privacy that you insist be acknowledged & followed by difficult child & in home staff. Present your family's home rules, chores, expectations for respect, school, etc. It's the only way to keep things sane while seeking help for your difficult child. You know your difficult child will step over the line with this person in the house & will try to snowball & blame her behaviors on circumstances, people, etc. Given your difficult children age & complex issues insist that a seasoned worker be assigned to your difficult child. Not someone just out of school or who can be overwhelmed by a knowledgeable but loving parent. Many times the worker comes in looking for the worst out of the parents. Keeping you & yours in my thoughts. [/FONT][/SIZE][/COLOR] [/QUOTE]
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