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<blockquote data-quote="DazedandConfused" data-source="post: 763921" data-attributes="member: 831"><p>Hi Cora, </p><p></p><p>Your post makes sense to me. I do not have experience with having an incarcerated adult child, so I have not been in your position. I am, however, the mother of a narcissistic, gaslighting, and verbally abusive adult son. I gather he needs to list an address as a condition for getting out on parole and expects you to allow yours to be used even though it would open you up to warrantless searches. I would not be agreeable to that either. I understand and empathize with your lack of trust in him. Of course, it is not YOUR fault if he does not get out on parole. Sometimes, I am gobsmacked by our adult children's lack of ownership in their own choices and, frankly, tragically STUPID decisions. Likewise, how they then level the blame on us for their self-made troubles. </p><p></p><p>I know this forum has been slow due to the owner's passing. Some wonderful people are trying to get it back on track. Please let us know how you are doing.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DazedandConfused, post: 763921, member: 831"] Hi Cora, Your post makes sense to me. I do not have experience with having an incarcerated adult child, so I have not been in your position. I am, however, the mother of a narcissistic, gaslighting, and verbally abusive adult son. I gather he needs to list an address as a condition for getting out on parole and expects you to allow yours to be used even though it would open you up to warrantless searches. I would not be agreeable to that either. I understand and empathize with your lack of trust in him. Of course, it is not YOUR fault if he does not get out on parole. Sometimes, I am gobsmacked by our adult children's lack of ownership in their own choices and, frankly, tragically STUPID decisions. Likewise, how they then level the blame on us for their self-made troubles. I know this forum has been slow due to the owner's passing. Some wonderful people are trying to get it back on track. Please let us know how you are doing. [/QUOTE]
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