Ugh! It has been a rough time lately. Let me remind you that husband is now on SSI- disability. We have to pay back the temp. disability we got while waiting for approval. Monthly amount is about a third of what he was making. We owe more back than he will be getting. I lost my job and we have used up every savings account and cashed in our IRA to keep afloat. difficult child was giving me a guilt trip for not going to see him this weekend (husband's B-day) because we had to move bio daughter to college. Well it just keeps getting better. We have spend a lot of money on car repairs for her to get the car ready. husband and bio's boyfriend were in our van on Wednesday when they were t-boned by a truck. Thankfully they both are ok but they are telling us that the van may be a total loss. Friday on our way down to Las Cruces our car broke down. We had it towed to a friends where it sat all weekend while we rented a car -moved all her belongs from one vehicle to another to still get her down there to move her in on time. Left our house Friday morning 9 ish -should have been to our destination by 1 but were unable to get a rental until 5:30 so we got in late. Get to her apartment on campus to move her in to find out that it was a disgusting mess---I ended up cleaning (scrubbing shelves,bathroom,floors you name it. Ended up staying another night because it was not finished. Left later than we wanted because biodaughter and stepson wanted me to get them a sam's club membership. Had to drive all the way home to get the car trailer to bring home the car --so we went an hour back to drop off the car then another hour home after being on the road all day. We now don't know what is going to happen with either vehicle. difficult child called tonight for family therapy and AGAIN I get blamed for playing favorites and abandonment. Anybody got any advise???