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Rude adult daugther returned home with her baby is disrepectful rude and lazy
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<blockquote data-quote="Nomad" data-source="post: 676398" data-attributes="member: 4152"><p>She is living in your home free and getting free babysitting and being rude to you.</p><p>Read that sentence again.</p><p>Is your husband her father?</p><p>Especially if he is her father, he needs to get on board and you two need to be a united front.</p><p>She needs to pay some rent and s he should at least get a PT job. She should start with a moderate rent and very shortly after that a moderate fee for babysitting. Moderate...less than the going rate. Since you are a grandparent, it's fine to be generous, but not a doormat.</p><p>I would give her a timeline to find a job (if she doesn't have one) and start paying. Have your husband with you when you break the news.</p><p>The rudeness needs to stop now. Immediately. Also agree, if she is violent or vulgar...call the cops.</p><p>I too would consider calling cps on her if she continues with this odd behavior. Keep this to yourself. Silently observe her to see if she is doing drugs and or hanging around unscrupulous people.</p><p>You are not doing her any favors by not asking for the basics.</p><p>This would be an important growth experience for her.</p><p>And you are worn out and hurting yourself as well.</p><p>Take good care of your physical and mental health.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nomad, post: 676398, member: 4152"] She is living in your home free and getting free babysitting and being rude to you. Read that sentence again. Is your husband her father? Especially if he is her father, he needs to get on board and you two need to be a united front. She needs to pay some rent and s he should at least get a PT job. She should start with a moderate rent and very shortly after that a moderate fee for babysitting. Moderate...less than the going rate. Since you are a grandparent, it's fine to be generous, but not a doormat. I would give her a timeline to find a job (if she doesn't have one) and start paying. Have your husband with you when you break the news. The rudeness needs to stop now. Immediately. Also agree, if she is violent or vulgar...call the cops. I too would consider calling cps on her if she continues with this odd behavior. Keep this to yourself. Silently observe her to see if she is doing drugs and or hanging around unscrupulous people. You are not doing her any favors by not asking for the basics. This would be an important growth experience for her. And you are worn out and hurting yourself as well. Take good care of your physical and mental health. [/QUOTE]
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