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<blockquote data-quote="C.J." data-source="post: 231921" data-attributes="member: 1987"><p>Please slow down. You've got two males in your life who are having trouble following some simple and standard rules everyone else in a civilized society is expected to follow. Waiting a year sounds good when everyone is following the rules. Your "men" are not. Your fiance needs to come clean with you. There is more to this story. Have you been completely honest about this situation with someone you've known for a long time and trust their judgment? A sister, brother, best friend, mother, father, minister, doctor, counselor, etc.? My guess is this person would tell you to slow down too.</p><p></p><p>You know the statistics for second marriages when kids are involved. The divorce rates are even higher than first marriages.</p><p></p><p>Your son gave you an ultimatum - you chose to have him and raise him, and your job isn't done yet. Your son may need a thorough phychological evaluation. You both may need some intensive family counseling. You need to do this before you make any more long term commitments with someone who may not be around in a few more years. He wasn't around six months ago.</p><p></p><p>Truly, take some time.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="C.J., post: 231921, member: 1987"] Please slow down. You've got two males in your life who are having trouble following some simple and standard rules everyone else in a civilized society is expected to follow. Waiting a year sounds good when everyone is following the rules. Your "men" are not. Your fiance needs to come clean with you. There is more to this story. Have you been completely honest about this situation with someone you've known for a long time and trust their judgment? A sister, brother, best friend, mother, father, minister, doctor, counselor, etc.? My guess is this person would tell you to slow down too. You know the statistics for second marriages when kids are involved. The divorce rates are even higher than first marriages. Your son gave you an ultimatum - you chose to have him and raise him, and your job isn't done yet. Your son may need a thorough phychological evaluation. You both may need some intensive family counseling. You need to do this before you make any more long term commitments with someone who may not be around in a few more years. He wasn't around six months ago. Truly, take some time. [/QUOTE]
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