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Running out of ideas for punishments that Work for 5 year old
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<blockquote data-quote="Malika" data-source="post: 467657" data-attributes="member: 11227"><p>Ah, thereby hangs a debate, Janet <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> How will they learn if you don't "punish" (but it does rather depend on the child), you wonder. My sense is that they do it by</p><p></p><p>- the tone of the voice</p><p>- expression of disapproval</p><p>- explanations, before and after the undesirable behaviour</p><p>- peer disapproval (very educational, this one)</p><p>- asking the child to repair any damage done in whatever way possible</p><p>- letting the child experience the natural consequences of the behaviour</p><p>- rewarding the behaviour you DO want</p><p></p><p>I have seen these things changing my son's behaviour. Punishment makes him angry and depressed and seems not to teach him anything. He may not be typical! Whatever works...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Malika, post: 467657, member: 11227"] Ah, thereby hangs a debate, Janet :) How will they learn if you don't "punish" (but it does rather depend on the child), you wonder. My sense is that they do it by - the tone of the voice - expression of disapproval - explanations, before and after the undesirable behaviour - peer disapproval (very educational, this one) - asking the child to repair any damage done in whatever way possible - letting the child experience the natural consequences of the behaviour - rewarding the behaviour you DO want I have seen these things changing my son's behaviour. Punishment makes him angry and depressed and seems not to teach him anything. He may not be typical! Whatever works... [/QUOTE]
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