KATES_MOM
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My mother just turned 78 this month. For several months now she is very confussed apon awakening. When she takes a nap during the daytime, and then wakes up she is confussed about where she is and why she is there. She told me in the mornings when she wakes up she hears her mother, father, my brother, and my bro-inlaws voices, they are all deceased!
She says they are trying to talk to her but she cant understand what they are saying. Sometimes she even walks around her appointment. looking for them.
My sister took her to an appointment. yesterday and out to lunch. I talked to her when she got back and she was excited telling me all about her day. 40 min. later she called me very upset and asked me Why I didnt come and take her to her appointment. I was stunded! I recalled her day back to her and it took her a few sec. to remember this. But she seemed very upset with me on forgeting her and her appointment...?? Tonight she called and asked" Is is day or night?"
Seems she layed down for a nap and woke up confussed again, didnt know if she had slept all night or what. She has been forgeting her 3 O"clock medications. So I now call her at 3 and tell her to take them.
I usually go with her to all her appointment. doctor has said she needs to be in assisted living.
But my other sisters seem to think this will be the end to her, as she would loose her independence, and give up and have a low quailty of life. So they out numbered me.
During waking hours mom is pretty much with it, with some confussions. She still drives. The sisters dont want to take that away either, as she has had no accidents. I have found her roaming walmarts par/lot once trying to find her car. She had been looking for it for about an half hour she said. I have lost my car befor in the P/lot befor, so I didnt seem too concerned then. But now things are progressing rapidly!!
I am taking her to doctor. tomorrow about this, they agreed to get her in quickly. What do you all think about this?? Is this alzheimers(sp) dementia, or what> How to handle the sisters also. Thanks, Kathy
She says they are trying to talk to her but she cant understand what they are saying. Sometimes she even walks around her appointment. looking for them.
My sister took her to an appointment. yesterday and out to lunch. I talked to her when she got back and she was excited telling me all about her day. 40 min. later she called me very upset and asked me Why I didnt come and take her to her appointment. I was stunded! I recalled her day back to her and it took her a few sec. to remember this. But she seemed very upset with me on forgeting her and her appointment...?? Tonight she called and asked" Is is day or night?"
Seems she layed down for a nap and woke up confussed again, didnt know if she had slept all night or what. She has been forgeting her 3 O"clock medications. So I now call her at 3 and tell her to take them.
I usually go with her to all her appointment. doctor has said she needs to be in assisted living.
But my other sisters seem to think this will be the end to her, as she would loose her independence, and give up and have a low quailty of life. So they out numbered me.
During waking hours mom is pretty much with it, with some confussions. She still drives. The sisters dont want to take that away either, as she has had no accidents. I have found her roaming walmarts par/lot once trying to find her car. She had been looking for it for about an half hour she said. I have lost my car befor in the P/lot befor, so I didnt seem too concerned then. But now things are progressing rapidly!!
I am taking her to doctor. tomorrow about this, they agreed to get her in quickly. What do you all think about this?? Is this alzheimers(sp) dementia, or what> How to handle the sisters also. Thanks, Kathy