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<blockquote data-quote="flutterbee" data-source="post: 105199"><p>BBK - </p><p></p><p>I noticed you haven't been on the board much lately. In fact, I got on just now to see if I saw you and if not I was going to send you a PM.</p><p></p><p>I'm so sorry you're in so much pain right now. I wish I could take it away. All I can do is tell you that you are a beautiful lady, with a heart the size of Texas and a sense of humor that doesn't stop and offer you my shoulder and all the hugs you need.</p><p></p><p>Grieve the 'coulda-woulda-shoulda's'. Then remember that those only would have happened had Matt truly been the right one for you. You got a taste of something beautiful; of course the pain of losing it is going to be great. I went through the same thing with a man who was totally wrong for me. I knew it then and I know it now. I was the one that ended it, but it didn't spare me any of the pain. I also know that I will never love someone again the way I loved him. I don't think we let ourselves. It hurts too much. Knowing all this and with 10 years that have passed, if he were to walk back into my life today I don't know if I could refuse him. How stupid is that?</p><p></p><p>You will get through this. And on those days that you can't seem to stand, we'll lift you up. </p><p></p><p>Have you talked to psychiatrist about all this? I'm wondering if a medication tweak or change isn't in order.</p><p></p><p>Love and (((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="flutterbee, post: 105199"] BBK - I noticed you haven't been on the board much lately. In fact, I got on just now to see if I saw you and if not I was going to send you a PM. I'm so sorry you're in so much pain right now. I wish I could take it away. All I can do is tell you that you are a beautiful lady, with a heart the size of Texas and a sense of humor that doesn't stop and offer you my shoulder and all the hugs you need. Grieve the 'coulda-woulda-shoulda's'. Then remember that those only would have happened had Matt truly been the right one for you. You got a taste of something beautiful; of course the pain of losing it is going to be great. I went through the same thing with a man who was totally wrong for me. I knew it then and I know it now. I was the one that ended it, but it didn't spare me any of the pain. I also know that I will never love someone again the way I loved him. I don't think we let ourselves. It hurts too much. Knowing all this and with 10 years that have passed, if he were to walk back into my life today I don't know if I could refuse him. How stupid is that? You will get through this. And on those days that you can't seem to stand, we'll lift you up. Have you talked to psychiatrist about all this? I'm wondering if a medication tweak or change isn't in order. Love and (((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))) [/QUOTE]
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