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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar II" data-source="post: 105211" data-attributes="member: 4391"><p>BBK?</p><p></p><p>Could it be the lost, misunderstood young woman who was so badly and cavalierly treated that you are pining for?</p><p></p><p>I think this has very little to do with anyone else.</p><p></p><p>I think we need to mourn our losses.</p><p></p><p>When we become caricatures of ourselves through trying to please others, through trying to figure out who and how they want us to be (whether that be a husband or ourselves, after watching all those stinking commercials that tell us who and how we should be)....</p><p></p><p>What?!?</p><p></p><p>Did I lose my chain of thought and put myself to sleep again?</p><p></p><p>Heh.</p><p></p><p>Just kidding.</p><p></p><p>Getting a little preachy, there!</p><p></p><p>Sorry.</p><p></p><p>What I am trying to say is that your sadness is for the girl and the young woman you were.</p><p></p><p>Honor your sorrow.</p><p></p><p>"Give your sorrow all the space and shelter its gentle origins demands."</p><p></p><p>Your true self is making her appearance I think, BBK.</p><p></p><p>And she is wonderful, and she is strong enough to see you through this.</p><p></p><p>I don't think this has one thing to do with some man who probaby wasn't worth spitting on ~ or he would not have done what he did.</p><p></p><p>Honorable people honor their commitments ~ whether to their employers, their children, their extended families or their spouses.</p><p></p><p>Do not allow yourself to feel blamed and guilty because the man you fell in love with when you were young and too romantic to see clearly turned out to be a dishonorable person.</p><p></p><p>That has nothing to do with you.</p><p></p><p>As to the weight issue?</p><p></p><p>So, start walking. <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/smile.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":smile:" title="smile :smile:" data-shortname=":smile:" /></p><p></p><p>Or begin doing Yoga at home with video tapes or CDs from the library.</p><p></p><p>Honor the innocent young woman who survived her relationship with a dishonorable man. </p><p></p><p>It could happen to any one of us.</p><p></p><p>A dishonorable man does not mean we are dishonored.</p><p></p><p>It means we were mistaken.</p><p></p><p>And I want to add that of course he does not honor his obligations to his child.</p><p></p><p>He is a dishonorable man.</p><p></p><p>Expect nothing from him unless you have something he wants.</p><p></p><p>I am sorry, BBK.</p><p></p><p>I know you have been so sad, lately.</p><p></p><p>Things will be better, by and by.</p><p></p><p>Barbara</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar II, post: 105211, member: 4391"] BBK? Could it be the lost, misunderstood young woman who was so badly and cavalierly treated that you are pining for? I think this has very little to do with anyone else. I think we need to mourn our losses. When we become caricatures of ourselves through trying to please others, through trying to figure out who and how they want us to be (whether that be a husband or ourselves, after watching all those stinking commercials that tell us who and how we should be).... What?!? Did I lose my chain of thought and put myself to sleep again? Heh. Just kidding. Getting a little preachy, there! Sorry. What I am trying to say is that your sadness is for the girl and the young woman you were. Honor your sorrow. "Give your sorrow all the space and shelter its gentle origins demands." Your true self is making her appearance I think, BBK. And she is wonderful, and she is strong enough to see you through this. I don't think this has one thing to do with some man who probaby wasn't worth spitting on ~ or he would not have done what he did. Honorable people honor their commitments ~ whether to their employers, their children, their extended families or their spouses. Do not allow yourself to feel blamed and guilty because the man you fell in love with when you were young and too romantic to see clearly turned out to be a dishonorable person. That has nothing to do with you. As to the weight issue? So, start walking. :smile: Or begin doing Yoga at home with video tapes or CDs from the library. Honor the innocent young woman who survived her relationship with a dishonorable man. It could happen to any one of us. A dishonorable man does not mean we are dishonored. It means we were mistaken. And I want to add that of course he does not honor his obligations to his child. He is a dishonorable man. Expect nothing from him unless you have something he wants. I am sorry, BBK. I know you have been so sad, lately. Things will be better, by and by. Barbara [/QUOTE]
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