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Sad to say but I have to move easy child into the difficult child category...
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<blockquote data-quote="LittleDudesMom" data-source="post: 427330" data-attributes="member: 805"><p>3S,</p><p></p><p>I can feel your saddness in your words. The book Malika has recommended, and ski10 seconds, sounds like a good move - you just have to get her to read it.</p><p></p><p>The persnickety stuff is livable, it's the dangerous behavior that would concern me. A serious conversation about pregnancy and stds sounds in order - if she won't listen to you, take her to her doctor and let him/her give her the reality.</p><p></p><p>What was the result of the phospital stay? Was she given any type of diagnosis that you are treating? </p><p></p><p>I'm not sure I really understand your question about what your rights are. If she is going to private therapy, the therapist really can't talk to you unless it's a case of "life and death". But going together for family therapy or having the therapist can get her to sign that therapist can talk to you are options. You have a right not be verbally abused in your home - you have a right to know where your 14 year old daughter is at all times - you have a right to intervene if you feel she is not being safe.</p><p></p><p>Insofar as the trip to France this summer - don't take her. Does husband have any family she can stay with here? Why ruin your whole trip with a moody, ungrateful teenager. I know you would prefer to spend the time with your entire family as you visit your homeland but, as you know, living with difficult children means all bets and "normalcies" are off. You might just give her what she wants - maybe that little dose of reality will make her realize this is life - she can't control everything.</p><p></p><p>Sorry things are so difficult right now.</p><p></p><p>Sharon</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="LittleDudesMom, post: 427330, member: 805"] 3S, I can feel your saddness in your words. The book Malika has recommended, and ski10 seconds, sounds like a good move - you just have to get her to read it. The persnickety stuff is livable, it's the dangerous behavior that would concern me. A serious conversation about pregnancy and stds sounds in order - if she won't listen to you, take her to her doctor and let him/her give her the reality. What was the result of the phospital stay? Was she given any type of diagnosis that you are treating? I'm not sure I really understand your question about what your rights are. If she is going to private therapy, the therapist really can't talk to you unless it's a case of "life and death". But going together for family therapy or having the therapist can get her to sign that therapist can talk to you are options. You have a right not be verbally abused in your home - you have a right to know where your 14 year old daughter is at all times - you have a right to intervene if you feel she is not being safe. Insofar as the trip to France this summer - don't take her. Does husband have any family she can stay with here? Why ruin your whole trip with a moody, ungrateful teenager. I know you would prefer to spend the time with your entire family as you visit your homeland but, as you know, living with difficult children means all bets and "normalcies" are off. You might just give her what she wants - maybe that little dose of reality will make her realize this is life - she can't control everything. Sorry things are so difficult right now. Sharon [/QUOTE]
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