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<blockquote data-quote="1905" data-source="post: 451228" data-attributes="member: 2668"><p>(((HUGS))) He doesn't see he has a problem because it's not a problem for him. He still has a nice warm bed, food and some income-he doesn't need much right now, he's living in your house. You stated something about draining an account, is completely his? If it's not, maybe you can make it so he can't access it. He's very, very smart. Is this behavior new? Did he act like this when he was younger? </p><p>Things have to get worse for him to make him want to get help. You have to protect yourself emotionally, you can't be freaking out worrying that he's going to hurt himself, or hurt someone else. It seems like he's hurting himself...I'm so sorry! If he wasn't allowed to live in your house, that might make him realize he needs money, and may make him see he needs help. If he threatens to kill himself, or do ANYTHING like that-CALL THE POLICE! He will go to an inpatient facility, he really needs help. (((HUGS))) I have been where you are. You can't be walking around on eggshells, you won't have any quality life, no one in your home will either. Be proactive. You have to be really strong now, you can do it!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="1905, post: 451228, member: 2668"] (((HUGS))) He doesn't see he has a problem because it's not a problem for him. He still has a nice warm bed, food and some income-he doesn't need much right now, he's living in your house. You stated something about draining an account, is completely his? If it's not, maybe you can make it so he can't access it. He's very, very smart. Is this behavior new? Did he act like this when he was younger? Things have to get worse for him to make him want to get help. You have to protect yourself emotionally, you can't be freaking out worrying that he's going to hurt himself, or hurt someone else. It seems like he's hurting himself...I'm so sorry! If he wasn't allowed to live in your house, that might make him realize he needs money, and may make him see he needs help. If he threatens to kill himself, or do ANYTHING like that-CALL THE POLICE! He will go to an inpatient facility, he really needs help. (((HUGS))) I have been where you are. You can't be walking around on eggshells, you won't have any quality life, no one in your home will either. Be proactive. You have to be really strong now, you can do it! [/QUOTE]
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