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<blockquote data-quote="SuZir" data-source="post: 600207" data-attributes="member: 14557"><p>Does your difficult child hgave any friends of his own? Or hobby? Could you help him find something he would be enthusiastic about and that would be something of his own. Something easy child has no part? What enjoyable (at least for him) things or activities you or his dad do with just him without easy child? </p><p></p><p>I know your easy child does many sports and know all too well what kind of time commitment that tends to be for family. And I think you have said your difficult child is not interested of organized sports and that is of course fine. But I have noticed that sometimes while parents take their little kids to little league and play ball with them in park, they may not be as active when introducing their kids to other type of interests. And often our difficult children are not go-getters but need all kind of help and some pushing from parents to find their interests and find positive ways to occupy their time. And often, if kid is not into sports or music, parents don't help them find something else with same enthusiasm. </p><p></p><p>Your difficult child (and also your easy child) would greatly benefit something fun and positive he could enjoy and be proud of and that would be totally separate from your easy child's activities. And with which you show as much interest and enthusiasm as for your easy child's hobbies.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SuZir, post: 600207, member: 14557"] Does your difficult child hgave any friends of his own? Or hobby? Could you help him find something he would be enthusiastic about and that would be something of his own. Something easy child has no part? What enjoyable (at least for him) things or activities you or his dad do with just him without easy child? I know your easy child does many sports and know all too well what kind of time commitment that tends to be for family. And I think you have said your difficult child is not interested of organized sports and that is of course fine. But I have noticed that sometimes while parents take their little kids to little league and play ball with them in park, they may not be as active when introducing their kids to other type of interests. And often our difficult children are not go-getters but need all kind of help and some pushing from parents to find their interests and find positive ways to occupy their time. And often, if kid is not into sports or music, parents don't help them find something else with same enthusiasm. Your difficult child (and also your easy child) would greatly benefit something fun and positive he could enjoy and be proud of and that would be totally separate from your easy child's activities. And with which you show as much interest and enthusiasm as for your easy child's hobbies. [/QUOTE]
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