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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 709297" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>Hi HT,</p><p></p><p>I'm glad you decided to post about your story.</p><p></p><p>I would not hesitate to file charges against my son if I needed to, homeless or not. When my son was still a teenager living at home we had to put a lock on our bedroom door. The lock didn't stop him, he took a hammer and beat a hole a foot wide through the door. Once inside our bedroom, he stole our safe that had $3000 in it. I did not hesitate to call the police.</p><p>Just because they are our kids does not give them a pass when the commit a crime against us.</p><p>Here's the thing, if when they steal from us and we do nothing, it sends them the message that they can continue to steal from us without consequences.</p><p>As for your son being homeless, just like my son, it's a choice, it's their choice.</p><p></p><p>As for your grandchildren, I'm so sorry he has interfered with you seeing them. Have you talked to your ex daughter in law about it? What is her reason?</p><p></p><p>I'm sorry you got stuck with the tuition. I too had to pay for my sons. I also bought my son a car that he was supposed to pay us back for. $100 a month. I knew going into it that I probably would never get the money. He ended up giving the car to his landlord for back rent.</p><p></p><p>I'm glad you are here with us. Does it get easier, yes. You will see from my signature that I have been dealing with my son for many years.</p><p>I learned to detach and move on with my life. I am happy and have a good life despite the chaos my son stirs up.</p><p></p><p>Keep posting and let us know how things are going.</p><p></p><p>((HUGS)) to you...............</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 709297, member: 18516"] Hi HT, I'm glad you decided to post about your story. I would not hesitate to file charges against my son if I needed to, homeless or not. When my son was still a teenager living at home we had to put a lock on our bedroom door. The lock didn't stop him, he took a hammer and beat a hole a foot wide through the door. Once inside our bedroom, he stole our safe that had $3000 in it. I did not hesitate to call the police. Just because they are our kids does not give them a pass when the commit a crime against us. Here's the thing, if when they steal from us and we do nothing, it sends them the message that they can continue to steal from us without consequences. As for your son being homeless, just like my son, it's a choice, it's their choice. As for your grandchildren, I'm so sorry he has interfered with you seeing them. Have you talked to your ex daughter in law about it? What is her reason? I'm sorry you got stuck with the tuition. I too had to pay for my sons. I also bought my son a car that he was supposed to pay us back for. $100 a month. I knew going into it that I probably would never get the money. He ended up giving the car to his landlord for back rent. I'm glad you are here with us. Does it get easier, yes. You will see from my signature that I have been dealing with my son for many years. I learned to detach and move on with my life. I am happy and have a good life despite the chaos my son stirs up. Keep posting and let us know how things are going. ((HUGS)) to you............... [/QUOTE]
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