Saw difficult child at rehab

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AmericanGirl

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Spent two hours with difficult child at rehab today. I swear he isn't even close to the same kid I took there 10 days ago.

He talked...listened...shared things like how afraid he was to be anywhere near alcohol. How he was going to have to find new friends. He admitted stuff. No defenses. No excuses. He was polite and interested in me. Affectionate even in front of peers his age.

I brought him two Ralph Lauren tshirts. He was nice but said that he didn't care about brand names anymore. I told him they cost $14 each at the outlet store. He laughed and said if that was all I paid, then he'd keep them...otherwise, I should return them cause he didn't need expensive stuff.

Talked to to nurses without him around. They praised him. This place has classes and meetings seven days a week.

We still have a long way to go and much to work out but I'm just thankful I got two hours of actually enjoying his company. It's a good start and I am so grateful.
 

Kathy813

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Staff member
Thanks for the great update. We need some good news around here.

Hooray for your difficult child!

~Kathy
 

DDD

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AG, I am so happy to read about your visit. I'm rooting for you both that he may be one of the teens who truly gets it in his brain and his heart early on. Fingers crossed. DDD
 

Nancy

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AG I am so happy for you. I'm crossing everything that this is a new beginning for him. Kathy is right we need some good news. May he be the hope we are looking for.

Nancy
 
Wow! What great news! It sounds like your difficult child might be one of those teens who is really serious about his recovery. I need to hear about a success story, because my 18 year old difficult child is still in denial about any problem. Thanks for sharing your good news.
 
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