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<blockquote data-quote="ctmom05" data-source="post: 603518" data-attributes="member: 2901"><p>I think Midwest Mom and recoveringenabler have made some really good points .. .. ..</p><p></p><p>"Why do you want to know what he doesn't want to tell you?" That question doesn't really need to ne answered except to yourself.</p><p></p><p>"You can continue trying to figure it all out and expend all your energy on him, or you can begin the process of detaching from your son and find ways to enjoy your own life, find your own joy, your own fulfillment and your own peace of mind. We can't change another, but we have all the power we need to change ourselves." In the long run, that's probably the most productive approach.</p><p></p><p>Consider the fact that your son is manipulating you and whether you want to be a victim of this over and over and over again.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ctmom05, post: 603518, member: 2901"] I think Midwest Mom and recoveringenabler have made some really good points .. .. .. "Why do you want to know what he doesn't want to tell you?" That question doesn't really need to ne answered except to yourself. "You can continue trying to figure it all out and expend all your energy on him, or you can begin the process of detaching from your son and find ways to enjoy your own life, find your own joy, your own fulfillment and your own peace of mind. We can't change another, but we have all the power we need to change ourselves." In the long run, that's probably the most productive approach. Consider the fact that your son is manipulating you and whether you want to be a victim of this over and over and over again. [/QUOTE]
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