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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 171739" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>Well, I am very sorry for your aunt's sister. I don't know how old she is, but intervention might be worth considering in a case like that.</p><p></p><p>As far as your situation- when I divorced my X, I felt the same way. It is a battle- especially if we have religious beliefs that tell us that divorce is wrong. It did help me to have others around to remind me of why I started down the road of divorce to begin with. I didn't have kids with my X, and I suppose that would be more difficult. Another that helped- I came to my own resolution that I would ( and it was ok to) always feel some love for him- it would have been wrong to marry him if I hadn't felt that I could always love him. But, to love and/or have caring feelings for someone and to be married, live with them, and have them in kid's life on a daily basis were not exactly the same thing.</p><p></p><p>So, my 2 cents- allow yourself to have feelings of love for him. But, remember that you're going down this road of divorce for a reason. Don't let yourself go backwards.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 171739, member: 3699"] Well, I am very sorry for your aunt's sister. I don't know how old she is, but intervention might be worth considering in a case like that. As far as your situation- when I divorced my X, I felt the same way. It is a battle- especially if we have religious beliefs that tell us that divorce is wrong. It did help me to have others around to remind me of why I started down the road of divorce to begin with. I didn't have kids with my X, and I suppose that would be more difficult. Another that helped- I came to my own resolution that I would ( and it was ok to) always feel some love for him- it would have been wrong to marry him if I hadn't felt that I could always love him. But, to love and/or have caring feelings for someone and to be married, live with them, and have them in kid's life on a daily basis were not exactly the same thing. So, my 2 cents- allow yourself to have feelings of love for him. But, remember that you're going down this road of divorce for a reason. Don't let yourself go backwards. [/QUOTE]
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