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<blockquote data-quote="donna723" data-source="post: 72008" data-attributes="member: 1883"><p>I'm afraid I agree with the others. You need to talk to an attorney for <em>yourself</em> and see if he can help you sort through all this and the legal ramifications. You have been told very, very little here and most of what he's told you doesn't add up at all. He's not being straight with you and you deserve to know the truth. In all probability, it didn't happen the way he told you (forget the "babysitting" thing - that's pure B.S.) I hate to say it but if he wasn't in to something he shouldn't have been, he would have been completely truthful with you and he would have already gone to the police himself by now!</p><p></p><p>For one thing, most middle-aged married men don't go around chatting up 16 year olds in the store and become "friends" with them! Not with any kind of "good intentions" they don't. And certainly not making phone calls to them. </p><p></p><p>Could he have said something to this "friend" about the 16 year old, and then the "friend" decided to use this information to extort money out of him?</p><p></p><p>Or, another thing that occured to me (or maybe I just watch too much TV) ... could the girl and the ones trying to get the money out of him possibly be in it together? Like ... the girl comes on to older men and when she finds one willing to take her up on it, they threaten to turn the man in unless he comes up with a lot of money?</p><p></p><p>One thing I do know for sure ... if a man had been "inappropriate" with MY daughter when she was that age, I certainly would never agree to just forget it for $20,000 and not go to the police! Not for $20,000 or any amount of money! I would want to see his b*typical teen be put UNDER the jail! </p><p></p><p>Something is very, very wrong here and I sure hope you can get to the bottom of it all and find out what really happened. You deserve to know the truth, whatever it is. It sounds like a real mess, and I'm so very sorry that you are having to deal with all this.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="donna723, post: 72008, member: 1883"] I'm afraid I agree with the others. You need to talk to an attorney for [i]yourself[/i] and see if he can help you sort through all this and the legal ramifications. You have been told very, very little here and most of what he's told you doesn't add up at all. He's not being straight with you and you deserve to know the truth. In all probability, it didn't happen the way he told you (forget the "babysitting" thing - that's pure B.S.) I hate to say it but if he wasn't in to something he shouldn't have been, he would have been completely truthful with you and he would have already gone to the police himself by now! For one thing, most middle-aged married men don't go around chatting up 16 year olds in the store and become "friends" with them! Not with any kind of "good intentions" they don't. And certainly not making phone calls to them. Could he have said something to this "friend" about the 16 year old, and then the "friend" decided to use this information to extort money out of him? Or, another thing that occured to me (or maybe I just watch too much TV) ... could the girl and the ones trying to get the money out of him possibly be in it together? Like ... the girl comes on to older men and when she finds one willing to take her up on it, they threaten to turn the man in unless he comes up with a lot of money? One thing I do know for sure ... if a man had been "inappropriate" with MY daughter when she was that age, I certainly would never agree to just forget it for $20,000 and not go to the police! Not for $20,000 or any amount of money! I would want to see his b*typical teen be put UNDER the jail! Something is very, very wrong here and I sure hope you can get to the bottom of it all and find out what really happened. You deserve to know the truth, whatever it is. It sounds like a real mess, and I'm so very sorry that you are having to deal with all this. [/QUOTE]
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