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<blockquote data-quote="Kilted Lass" data-source="post: 612785" data-attributes="member: 17288"><p>Thanks for the welcome <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p></p><p>It was probably two years ago that we got a diagnosis. I saw the issues much earlier, but no one would deal with me until he turned 5. I don't feel like we got a very comprehensive evaluation, but being with Kaiser and doing everything in-house, I'm not sure what my options are. I don't even know who to talk to in order to get something more extensive done.</p><p></p><p>I've heard about the holding it in for school thing, and I definitely think that's what's going on. I'm lucky that he really likes school and can behave there. I'd rather have to deal with his issues at home than deal with school.</p><p></p><p>I'm just at a loss on how to better handle his episodes. I feel like I've tried so many different things, being calm and talking in a low voice, ignoring, threatening, spanking, etc etc. Despite the amount of things I read for help I still feel like I'm winging it. I wish someone would just tell me "do this, this and this", and I mean specific things, not just 'find the reward he likes' type, lol. </p><p></p><p>The thing I find most frustrating is the point where he's so off in his little world of trying to get a rise out of me that he just doesn't hear anything coming in. Honest to god, he's gotten like this and started running into a street and my worried screams don't even penetrate his brain. Had it not been for a teenager standing outside smoking grabbing him by the scruff of his shirt at the last second he'd probably be dead.</p><p></p><p>I just feel lost.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Kilted Lass, post: 612785, member: 17288"] Thanks for the welcome :-) It was probably two years ago that we got a diagnosis. I saw the issues much earlier, but no one would deal with me until he turned 5. I don't feel like we got a very comprehensive evaluation, but being with Kaiser and doing everything in-house, I'm not sure what my options are. I don't even know who to talk to in order to get something more extensive done. I've heard about the holding it in for school thing, and I definitely think that's what's going on. I'm lucky that he really likes school and can behave there. I'd rather have to deal with his issues at home than deal with school. I'm just at a loss on how to better handle his episodes. I feel like I've tried so many different things, being calm and talking in a low voice, ignoring, threatening, spanking, etc etc. Despite the amount of things I read for help I still feel like I'm winging it. I wish someone would just tell me "do this, this and this", and I mean specific things, not just 'find the reward he likes' type, lol. The thing I find most frustrating is the point where he's so off in his little world of trying to get a rise out of me that he just doesn't hear anything coming in. Honest to god, he's gotten like this and started running into a street and my worried screams don't even penetrate his brain. Had it not been for a teenager standing outside smoking grabbing him by the scruff of his shirt at the last second he'd probably be dead. I just feel lost. [/QUOTE]
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