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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 234012" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>Sorry- but a little extension of my vent (another one)- has anyone been in this situation? At what point do I say that I cannot do anymore because I have to go back to work full time? I can't supervise difficult child when he's not in school, I can't run him to appts, I can't pay for more or give him more time- I have to go to work.</p><p></p><p>Now, does that mean that I'm putting my job before my child when I have done the opposite until I have no credit left, a damaged house, a PO telling my how to raise my kid and never satisfied, a kid who sticks knives in my face or at my throat, a therapist wanting to negotiate what more I should do to make difficult child feel motivated and happy, still owe about $2000 for difficult child's restitution, and if I keep on, we will be giving up our home and dogs and he'll be taken away for neglect because I'm not able to pay bills? Mind you- I did not break the law, I did not abuse my child, I did not neglect my child- I have advocated for him. </p><p></p><p>But is there not a point where I have to tell them that I can't meet anymore demands- I can't meet the ones I have at this point. Has therapist suddenly forgotten that this is what he wrote in his letter recommending fapt?</p><p></p><p>Then, what do they do? Are they going to court order me to do more- so where will that lead? It might end up with me calling PO and telling her if she's the one in control, then take him and go figure it out. So, she'll take it to court and sooner or later I'll end up in jail because I can't do more?? I seriously do not think it's me that needs to do more.</p><p></p><p>I can't believe that because I have tried to get mental health services for my son instead of filing charges on him, that I'm left with another person wanting to talk about what changes I can make. He** - I don't think there's so much time in my life that I control as it is. And that time is spent on this board, which has helped difficult child more than anything, indirectly.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 234012, member: 3699"] Sorry- but a little extension of my vent (another one)- has anyone been in this situation? At what point do I say that I cannot do anymore because I have to go back to work full time? I can't supervise difficult child when he's not in school, I can't run him to appts, I can't pay for more or give him more time- I have to go to work. Now, does that mean that I'm putting my job before my child when I have done the opposite until I have no credit left, a damaged house, a PO telling my how to raise my kid and never satisfied, a kid who sticks knives in my face or at my throat, a therapist wanting to negotiate what more I should do to make difficult child feel motivated and happy, still owe about $2000 for difficult child's restitution, and if I keep on, we will be giving up our home and dogs and he'll be taken away for neglect because I'm not able to pay bills? Mind you- I did not break the law, I did not abuse my child, I did not neglect my child- I have advocated for him. But is there not a point where I have to tell them that I can't meet anymore demands- I can't meet the ones I have at this point. Has therapist suddenly forgotten that this is what he wrote in his letter recommending fapt? Then, what do they do? Are they going to court order me to do more- so where will that lead? It might end up with me calling PO and telling her if she's the one in control, then take him and go figure it out. So, she'll take it to court and sooner or later I'll end up in jail because I can't do more?? I seriously do not think it's me that needs to do more. I can't believe that because I have tried to get mental health services for my son instead of filing charges on him, that I'm left with another person wanting to talk about what changes I can make. He** - I don't think there's so much time in my life that I control as it is. And that time is spent on this board, which has helped difficult child more than anything, indirectly. [/QUOTE]
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