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school problem we never had before ( sorry, longer than I thought)
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<blockquote data-quote="TeDo" data-source="post: 554041"><p>I understand your stress. That is where difficult child 1 was before he imploded and we ended up pulling him out of school. He just couldn't get through the stress and the unjustified punishment took it's toll on him emotionally.</p><p></p><p>Has he ever had a thorough evaluation? I'm wondering because the extreme anxiety, rigid rule follower, dislike of noisy environments, "aggressively defiant", "emotionally immature", hates the word NO, etc. all describe my difficult child 1. I really think, in order to effectively help him, you need to have him evaluated. The school won't do much if there is "no reason" for his behavior. He could end up being labelled a troublemaker or worse and you really don't want to go there when there might be a very good reason for it. I feel sorry for the poor boy.</p><p></p><p>The threat of detention is enough to throw any "good" kid for a loop and with his anxiety.....if telling people the truth doesn't get him out of that position, he's going to try everything he can think of to get out of it. He doesn't know what else to do. He can't handle getting into trouble for doing nothing wrong so he's going to try to find a way to avoid the possibility.</p><p></p><p>{{{{HUGS}}}} to you both. It is very hard to deal with but I can tell you that without a diagnosis of a "problem", the school is unlikely to help much.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TeDo, post: 554041"] I understand your stress. That is where difficult child 1 was before he imploded and we ended up pulling him out of school. He just couldn't get through the stress and the unjustified punishment took it's toll on him emotionally. Has he ever had a thorough evaluation? I'm wondering because the extreme anxiety, rigid rule follower, dislike of noisy environments, "aggressively defiant", "emotionally immature", hates the word NO, etc. all describe my difficult child 1. I really think, in order to effectively help him, you need to have him evaluated. The school won't do much if there is "no reason" for his behavior. He could end up being labelled a troublemaker or worse and you really don't want to go there when there might be a very good reason for it. I feel sorry for the poor boy. The threat of detention is enough to throw any "good" kid for a loop and with his anxiety.....if telling people the truth doesn't get him out of that position, he's going to try everything he can think of to get out of it. He doesn't know what else to do. He can't handle getting into trouble for doing nothing wrong so he's going to try to find a way to avoid the possibility. {{{{HUGS}}}} to you both. It is very hard to deal with but I can tell you that without a diagnosis of a "problem", the school is unlikely to help much. [/QUOTE]
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