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<blockquote data-quote="scaredofhim" data-source="post: 621157" data-attributes="member: 17051"><p>He doesn't really want to live with us, he only said that stuff to his mom to make her think that she is being unreasonable in trying to make him go to school or do anything else. And he is quite delusional. We have seen it many times and it was documented when he was in the psychiatric ward as well. I do think we would be at risk if we tried to discipline him. He is so big he could inflict serious harm. He has already hit and shoved his bio mom several times, broken lamps, punched holes in walls, etc. I do worry about him doing something while we sleep, that is a very big concern of mine although husband doesn't think that would happen. The child is totally unpredictable. If he did want to live with us I would definitely say no to that. I already feel unsafe in my own home every other weekend, no way I am enduring feeling way full time. I am too old to deal with the stress. As you have told me many times Midwest Mom, he is totally beyond what any parent can do for him. It's not safe to even try to get him to comply or obey rules. It makes him violent. I sleep with one eye open on the weekends that he is here. husband is working this Saturday, which means I will be alone with SS all day. The thought of it scares the bejeebers out of me.....</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="scaredofhim, post: 621157, member: 17051"] He doesn't really want to live with us, he only said that stuff to his mom to make her think that she is being unreasonable in trying to make him go to school or do anything else. And he is quite delusional. We have seen it many times and it was documented when he was in the psychiatric ward as well. I do think we would be at risk if we tried to discipline him. He is so big he could inflict serious harm. He has already hit and shoved his bio mom several times, broken lamps, punched holes in walls, etc. I do worry about him doing something while we sleep, that is a very big concern of mine although husband doesn't think that would happen. The child is totally unpredictable. If he did want to live with us I would definitely say no to that. I already feel unsafe in my own home every other weekend, no way I am enduring feeling way full time. I am too old to deal with the stress. As you have told me many times Midwest Mom, he is totally beyond what any parent can do for him. It's not safe to even try to get him to comply or obey rules. It makes him violent. I sleep with one eye open on the weekends that he is here. husband is working this Saturday, which means I will be alone with SS all day. The thought of it scares the bejeebers out of me..... [/QUOTE]
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