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Here we go again!
My mom gave me my dad's wedding ring when he died this summer. He never ever wore it. I didn't even know he had one. She said he wore it maybe a week when they got married and never again. I guess it bothered him. Then again, I think being married bothered him, too!
Anyway, I'm debating on whether to sell it or keep it. The sentimental value is kinda funky because of the fact that he never wore it and because of how lousy he treated my mom over the years. But once it's gone, that's it. I can't get it back. I guess I'm still grappling with his loss and it reminds me of him only because I was told it was his. Sigh.
She also gave me another man's wedding band and wasn't sure whose it was... possibly a brother-in-law's (of my dad)... he had it in his drawer.
I feel like such a mental mess lately...
Anyway, I'm debating on whether to sell it or keep it. The sentimental value is kinda funky because of the fact that he never wore it and because of how lousy he treated my mom over the years. But once it's gone, that's it. I can't get it back. I guess I'm still grappling with his loss and it reminds me of him only because I was told it was his. Sigh.
She also gave me another man's wedding band and wasn't sure whose it was... possibly a brother-in-law's (of my dad)... he had it in his drawer.
I feel like such a mental mess lately...