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<blockquote data-quote="CrazyinVA" data-source="post: 279657" data-attributes="member: 1157"><p>Only you can know what the right decision is for you. Divorce is never easy, on anyone. It takes two to make a marriage work.. and if only one of you is putting forth the the effort, it is incredibly draining. No matter what you decide, be sure you have a continuous support system in place for yourself and your kids. </p><p></p><p>I think you have to weigh all of it, and ask yourself the infamous Ann Landers question: "are you better off with him, or without him?" </p><p></p><p>For me, it was the latter.. I decided the stress of being WITH their father was worse on my kids than being without him. The divorce was messy, and undoubtedly contributed to and even escalated the kids' issues (don't even get me started on how nasty their dad was, and still is) .. but I truly believe things would have been worse if I'd stayed. </p><p></p><p>Hugs to you, no matter what you decide.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="CrazyinVA, post: 279657, member: 1157"] Only you can know what the right decision is for you. Divorce is never easy, on anyone. It takes two to make a marriage work.. and if only one of you is putting forth the the effort, it is incredibly draining. No matter what you decide, be sure you have a continuous support system in place for yourself and your kids. I think you have to weigh all of it, and ask yourself the infamous Ann Landers question: "are you better off with him, or without him?" For me, it was the latter.. I decided the stress of being WITH their father was worse on my kids than being without him. The divorce was messy, and undoubtedly contributed to and even escalated the kids' issues (don't even get me started on how nasty their dad was, and still is) .. but I truly believe things would have been worse if I'd stayed. Hugs to you, no matter what you decide. [/QUOTE]
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