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<blockquote data-quote="KTMom91" data-source="post: 279757" data-attributes="member: 4040"><p>Staying married to Useless Boy (Miss KT's father) would have literally had me in a psychiatric ward somewhere. All his antics were just crazy-making, and he chose to believe everything was wonderful, when he wasn't being totally P/A, or lying about something somewhere, or blaming me for whatever...we separated when Miss KT was 4, and managed to remain civil until about four years ago, when I took him to small claims court. Now it's open warfare with his mama (from whom all monies flow) right in the mix.</p><p></p><p>Divorce is never an easy option, but sometimes it's the only one you have to maintain your health and sanity. You are the only one who can decide what is right for you. It sounds to me like you are the only one trying to make this marriage work, and that isn't a good sign. You said you had a family business...will you have to continue working with him even if you divorce, or can you find another job? </p><p></p><p>I agree with the suggestion to get away, all by yourself, and sort it out for yourself. You deserve happiness. Many hugs to you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="KTMom91, post: 279757, member: 4040"] Staying married to Useless Boy (Miss KT's father) would have literally had me in a psychiatric ward somewhere. All his antics were just crazy-making, and he chose to believe everything was wonderful, when he wasn't being totally P/A, or lying about something somewhere, or blaming me for whatever...we separated when Miss KT was 4, and managed to remain civil until about four years ago, when I took him to small claims court. Now it's open warfare with his mama (from whom all monies flow) right in the mix. Divorce is never an easy option, but sometimes it's the only one you have to maintain your health and sanity. You are the only one who can decide what is right for you. It sounds to me like you are the only one trying to make this marriage work, and that isn't a good sign. You said you had a family business...will you have to continue working with him even if you divorce, or can you find another job? I agree with the suggestion to get away, all by yourself, and sort it out for yourself. You deserve happiness. Many hugs to you. [/QUOTE]
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