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<blockquote data-quote="sosotired" data-source="post: 279940" data-attributes="member: 7045"><p>Probably a good part of the reason my X and I split up was because of difficult child. He still refuses to acknowledge there is an issue, especially since he's probably Aspie himself.</p><p> </p><p>Don't ever assume you know someone. We were married 20 years and when the time came he did things I would NEVER have expected. Sadly, he chooses not to see his children although he does call once in a while (again, something I never thought he'd do).</p><p> </p><p>easy child, old enough to get what happened (I've never told her details) is full of rage and wants nothing to do with her dad. difficult child was too young and just misses him terribly.</p><p> </p><p>It's been heartbreaking. I did not have a choice as X left me but it has done quite a job on the kids. I didn't think it was all cookies and cream either but know most marriages aren't and was willing to work through whatever I had to.</p><p> </p><p>You are the only one that can make the decision although having him out of your and the kids daily life may change friction and difficulties you have today, divorce just brings different ones. A different c rap, different day kind of situation.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="sosotired, post: 279940, member: 7045"] Probably a good part of the reason my X and I split up was because of difficult child. He still refuses to acknowledge there is an issue, especially since he's probably Aspie himself. Don't ever assume you know someone. We were married 20 years and when the time came he did things I would NEVER have expected. Sadly, he chooses not to see his children although he does call once in a while (again, something I never thought he'd do). easy child, old enough to get what happened (I've never told her details) is full of rage and wants nothing to do with her dad. difficult child was too young and just misses him terribly. It's been heartbreaking. I did not have a choice as X left me but it has done quite a job on the kids. I didn't think it was all cookies and cream either but know most marriages aren't and was willing to work through whatever I had to. You are the only one that can make the decision although having him out of your and the kids daily life may change friction and difficulties you have today, divorce just brings different ones. A different c rap, different day kind of situation. [/QUOTE]
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