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<blockquote data-quote="Confused" data-source="post: 513629"><p>zaftigmama,</p><p> Your right that kids generally tune us out. I guess your right, my grandfather has done alot and he is having health problems, so I got more hurt and such than usual. On the making something myself or giving it from them, he said "if they can't come down and give it to me, than dont you dare bring it, its not from them,its your idea" So, we quit doing that. Your right, money problems can lead to divorce in some cases.</p><p></p><p>Your right as well, that was the first and last time I have ever said anything about their father. I always sugar coat why they cant be in the car while their father drives drunk, (they ask and I say" because sometimes it makes people feel funny and I dont think daddy feels so good, we need to care for him and you kids) why certain things are the way they are for their dad etc.. I also praise their father ( when conversation comes up) by saying" how smart he is in his studies," and "how well he is at his job" etc. Their father always says to my kids "its all your moms fault, she's ugly and stupid,etc ". So, that day, I did something I thought I never would,and said that. I had a talk with her and told her I was wrong and Im sorry. I will never do that again. Ever. Thank you <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Confused, post: 513629"] zaftigmama, Your right that kids generally tune us out. I guess your right, my grandfather has done alot and he is having health problems, so I got more hurt and such than usual. On the making something myself or giving it from them, he said "if they can't come down and give it to me, than dont you dare bring it, its not from them,its your idea" So, we quit doing that. Your right, money problems can lead to divorce in some cases. Your right as well, that was the first and last time I have ever said anything about their father. I always sugar coat why they cant be in the car while their father drives drunk, (they ask and I say" because sometimes it makes people feel funny and I dont think daddy feels so good, we need to care for him and you kids) why certain things are the way they are for their dad etc.. I also praise their father ( when conversation comes up) by saying" how smart he is in his studies," and "how well he is at his job" etc. Their father always says to my kids "its all your moms fault, she's ugly and stupid,etc ". So, that day, I did something I thought I never would,and said that. I had a talk with her and told her I was wrong and Im sorry. I will never do that again. Ever. Thank you :) [/QUOTE]
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