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<blockquote data-quote="JJJ" data-source="post: 346370" data-attributes="member: 1169"><p>She has been incredibly supervised since she was little so to the best of my knowledge she has not had sex with a boy yet. She did get past staff at Residential Treatment Center (RTC) and had sex with a girl. When in her 'moods' she wants sex, she wants to get pregnant, she is willing to trade sex for status, etc. - depends on the mood which of those feelings dominate or if she has more than one at once. She has never wanted to be a mother -- she sees the baby as a tool to control a boyfriend or punish us -- there is no comprehension that this will be a living, feeling person. </p><p></p><p>It is a huge concern of myself and therapist that while it is age and therapeutically appropriate for her to move to a more diverse placement and, eventually, earn her way into the community, that her hyper-sexality combined with her lack of sense will lead to some very bad choices and we want to protect her from life-long consequences. She has been force-fed safe sex instruction for over 2 years now so hopefully some of that will stick, but I'm not counting on it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="JJJ, post: 346370, member: 1169"] She has been incredibly supervised since she was little so to the best of my knowledge she has not had sex with a boy yet. She did get past staff at Residential Treatment Center (RTC) and had sex with a girl. When in her 'moods' she wants sex, she wants to get pregnant, she is willing to trade sex for status, etc. - depends on the mood which of those feelings dominate or if she has more than one at once. She has never wanted to be a mother -- she sees the baby as a tool to control a boyfriend or punish us -- there is no comprehension that this will be a living, feeling person. It is a huge concern of myself and therapist that while it is age and therapeutically appropriate for her to move to a more diverse placement and, eventually, earn her way into the community, that her hyper-sexality combined with her lack of sense will lead to some very bad choices and we want to protect her from life-long consequences. She has been force-fed safe sex instruction for over 2 years now so hopefully some of that will stick, but I'm not counting on it. [/QUOTE]
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