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<blockquote data-quote="Childofmine" data-source="post: 620532" data-attributes="member: 17542"><p>Oh please---be totally through with me---at least when you're like this, is our response right? They are so arrogant, so "it's all about me" in their disease they are just thinking of anything and everything they can say to get a rise out of us. </p><p></p><p>Finally, they say, "okay I'm DONE with you." Oh, really, well thank you for the break from YOU. </p><p></p><p>Funny...that they TELL us---after all we have done---instead of us telling them---after all they have done.</p><p></p><p>Hang in there SS---you and I are battling right now for our son's futures. We are battling for OUR futures. That is what we are doing. Let's don't mistake it for anything else.</p><p></p><p>Last night my SO said, don't react at all about anything unless the circumstances are DIRE. I replied, well honey therein lies the problem. My enabling mind can think that something is DIRE when it isn't. Especially when I'm tired, and tired of. </p><p></p><p>He replied: well, being in the hospital MAY be dire. (may not). Spending the night outside in freezing temps is not dire.</p><p></p><p>Isn't it funny how our minds work? With ANY BODY ELSE, we can be rational and reasonable and see things clearly. But not with difficult child, although I am getting clearer and clearer as I walk this path.</p><p></p><p>Let's hang together, SS. I didn't have much time to post yesterday but I'm here! I'm here! </p><p></p><p>Thanks for being here, all. Every post helps me.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Childofmine, post: 620532, member: 17542"] Oh please---be totally through with me---at least when you're like this, is our response right? They are so arrogant, so "it's all about me" in their disease they are just thinking of anything and everything they can say to get a rise out of us. Finally, they say, "okay I'm DONE with you." Oh, really, well thank you for the break from YOU. Funny...that they TELL us---after all we have done---instead of us telling them---after all they have done. Hang in there SS---you and I are battling right now for our son's futures. We are battling for OUR futures. That is what we are doing. Let's don't mistake it for anything else. Last night my SO said, don't react at all about anything unless the circumstances are DIRE. I replied, well honey therein lies the problem. My enabling mind can think that something is DIRE when it isn't. Especially when I'm tired, and tired of. He replied: well, being in the hospital MAY be dire. (may not). Spending the night outside in freezing temps is not dire. Isn't it funny how our minds work? With ANY BODY ELSE, we can be rational and reasonable and see things clearly. But not with difficult child, although I am getting clearer and clearer as I walk this path. Let's hang together, SS. I didn't have much time to post yesterday but I'm here! I'm here! Thanks for being here, all. Every post helps me. [/QUOTE]
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