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Serious help needed!18 yr old, now what?
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<blockquote data-quote="insanemomoffour" data-source="post: 297884" data-attributes="member: 3652"><p>Usually husband and I are reversed, that is once husband is fed up enough. Then 4th of July hits. I stay in the battle from the beginning to end, hold him accountable and stay on him until a chore is finished because difficult child gets side railed easily. For example, leaving the lawn mower sitting in the middle of the back yard to jump in the car and leave to go "hang". I think that our plan is to say this is not his home anymore. husband and I have tossed up the idea to talk to a couple of people to see if difficult child can stay with them for a while, but then I think if he is grown, he can make those accomadations hiself. He can take the car, even though our name is still on it, he is on our insurance and cell phone bill. My thought is give him 30 days to get a job and establish things and then cut it off. I will put the block on the cell phone though so that he can't go over the minutes as I know he will. Then if he requests to move back, IF we even consider it, it will be under strick restrictions for example medications, rules and chores. period!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="insanemomoffour, post: 297884, member: 3652"] Usually husband and I are reversed, that is once husband is fed up enough. Then 4th of July hits. I stay in the battle from the beginning to end, hold him accountable and stay on him until a chore is finished because difficult child gets side railed easily. For example, leaving the lawn mower sitting in the middle of the back yard to jump in the car and leave to go "hang". I think that our plan is to say this is not his home anymore. husband and I have tossed up the idea to talk to a couple of people to see if difficult child can stay with them for a while, but then I think if he is grown, he can make those accomadations hiself. He can take the car, even though our name is still on it, he is on our insurance and cell phone bill. My thought is give him 30 days to get a job and establish things and then cut it off. I will put the block on the cell phone though so that he can't go over the minutes as I know he will. Then if he requests to move back, IF we even consider it, it will be under strick restrictions for example medications, rules and chores. period! [/QUOTE]
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