hi
yup me again with all my issues....... lol.
so we have 3 tutors, they double down in subjects. i've won battle with-school to get more tutor time so now everyone has 2 hours per hard subjects she is buried in math, science, history.
the other's tutors have been modifying work since day 1. as per a verbal of the school who told me go ahead modify it, use your judgement. Yet i have this one seemingly sweet yet highly anal and Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) tutor who refuses to. due to that difficult child is extremely backed in the two subjects she teachers her science and math.
i have told her repeatedly i'm sorry yet you have to modify as per the school the other tutors are, what's with you more or less? well their not supposed to be doing that etc. on and on she went. i almost lost it today in my own dining room sitting there wtih her infront of difficult child, i could feel the heat rising to my head and i was about to pop. shes judgemental doesnt' get difficult child's illness, is constantly judging her, making comments etc. i dislike what she's doing. dont' have time to switch out now.
i've pulled her aside and said lisetn if you want to get technical the kid has a 504, well she doesnt' have an iep. omg.
so i'm off to email the school and tell them please email the tutoring service to modify the workload. so this one ridiculous tutor does that.
meanwhile she than said well i need the teachers to instruct me on what to modify. oh my god again. i said the other tutors are using their judgment and modifying according to what difficult child's getting what she's not etc.
so im frustrated right now. as i said she is a nice person just highly anal. she'd drive anyone batty
yup me again with all my issues....... lol.
so we have 3 tutors, they double down in subjects. i've won battle with-school to get more tutor time so now everyone has 2 hours per hard subjects she is buried in math, science, history.
the other's tutors have been modifying work since day 1. as per a verbal of the school who told me go ahead modify it, use your judgement. Yet i have this one seemingly sweet yet highly anal and Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) tutor who refuses to. due to that difficult child is extremely backed in the two subjects she teachers her science and math.
i have told her repeatedly i'm sorry yet you have to modify as per the school the other tutors are, what's with you more or less? well their not supposed to be doing that etc. on and on she went. i almost lost it today in my own dining room sitting there wtih her infront of difficult child, i could feel the heat rising to my head and i was about to pop. shes judgemental doesnt' get difficult child's illness, is constantly judging her, making comments etc. i dislike what she's doing. dont' have time to switch out now.
i've pulled her aside and said lisetn if you want to get technical the kid has a 504, well she doesnt' have an iep. omg.
so i'm off to email the school and tell them please email the tutoring service to modify the workload. so this one ridiculous tutor does that.
meanwhile she than said well i need the teachers to instruct me on what to modify. oh my god again. i said the other tutors are using their judgment and modifying according to what difficult child's getting what she's not etc.
so im frustrated right now. as i said she is a nice person just highly anal. she'd drive anyone batty